So...I tell my sister something that was my news to share and she writes, "I told mom/dad about X. I hope that was okay." I wrote back to say that this wasn't her news to tell. Her response?
Then you should have told me not to say anything.
Seriously? I have to preface a convo with this? I asked her that and she replied with, "then don't tell me anything anymore". I really wish that wasn't the answer to this. I just wish she could respect boundaries.
Honestly. She frustrates me BEYOND belief.