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phillygirl (original poster member #9078) posted at 11:30 AM on Friday, July 5th, 2013
My waiting period is up. And the final decree is now on the judge's desk to sign. He could have signed it Monday or Tuesday but I'm just waiting to get the official paperwork in my hands.
I feel. Nothing. Except that in hindsight my entire marriage was a giant, painful waste of time.
In boredom yesterday I signed up for Match and paid for 3 months because I had a promo code. After looking thru the profiles for 20 minutes I have buyers remorse. Dating still sucks. I think I may be paranoid, because I swear I can see red flags waving in some people's profiles.
Sigh.
Me - BW
Him - WH
Divorced - 7/2013
HurtsButImOK ( member #38865) posted at 12:19 PM on Friday, July 5th, 2013
I hope this ending is the beginning of something wonderful for you.
I too feel as though my relationship was the longest and biggest mistake of my life. I am however determined to learn from it so as to never make the same mistakes again.
I also registered for OLD but haven't actually looked at any profiles as I am soooo not ready yet. Especially when you read the experiences other SI peeps have 
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 5:56 PM on Friday, July 5th, 2013
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 6:37 PM on Friday, July 5th, 2013
Party at Phillygirl's house!
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:39 PM on Friday, July 5th, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
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