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User Topic: Anyone read Vow: A Memoir of Marriage?
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Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Am approaching our 4 year anti-versary. Not sure how I am feeling (today). Marriage is good, very good. FWH is really a new man, honest, emotionally stable... faithful. We are good together, in this to win this.

And yet the scars (wounds?) of the As are with me. I searched the word infidelity in my library catalogue and discovered a 2013 release entitled, Vow: A Memoir of Marriage (and Other Affairs), about a wife who discovered her Hs affair(s) and an outside child. She was also unfaithful during the M. The reviews on Amazon are interesting.

Anyone here read this? Thoughts?

Him FWH [Dr.NewMan]
Married 23 y/4 children In R
DDay #1 7/20/09 DDay #2 7/28/09 (2 As,both with *PSEUDO*friends)

Had him first. Have him last. Just wish I could have had him ONLY.

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Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi Flatlined.

I have not read that particular book.

I really enjoyed "How to be an Adult in Relationships" by David Richo.

I think I read it in year 4, maybe year 3.

I know I would not have been open to some of its tenets earlier in R. In particular, Acceptance.

When I did read it. I was ready. For me the scars stay as well. But this book was very helpful to me in moving forward. Acceptance not only of what happened in the A but also the very flawed R that followed.

I don't respect anyone that can't spell a word more than one way:)

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