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User Topic: I need a ruling, please
nowiknow23
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Cool  Posted: 2:05 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hypothetical situation:
1. You are at work on the Friday following a holiday.
2. You are kicking ass and taking names because the office is practically empty. Productivity is your middle name.
3. The only other person at work is your boss' boss.
4. Boss' boss leaves after lunch.

Your productive side says, "I should stay at my desk and get those reports done ahead of time for next week."

Your procrastinating side says, "Screw that! It's gorgeous outside, it's practically the weekend and NO ONE WILL KNOW if I play hooky!

So, which side do you listen to? Ruling please?


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 2:07 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hooky

PS: No one should have to work the friday after a holiday... that's just wrong.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 2:09 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Guilty!

Oh, wait--hookey!!

I am so with you; I am beyond bored. I've actually finished my work through next November

PS: I'm knitting now

[This message edited by Sad in AZ at 2:09 PM, July 5th (Friday)]


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20457 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 2:13 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hooky. Hooky. Hooky.

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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hooky!!!

The sun is out, after all .


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm about to leave for the day, so I think you know which way I'm leaning on this one


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Let's just say that NOBODY on their deathbed ever says "I wish I had spent more time at work."

By the way, your procrastinating side has an 'edge' to her. Very appealing


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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atsenaotie
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Default  Posted: 2:58 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What are you still doing there?

first, before you go plese sign my petition to make the first Friday in July the 4th of July.


LTA FBS 54
dday 10.5.09
Separated and Divorcing

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"M" stands for "Maybe" right?


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hmm...were you really asking? Or were you just sharing the opportunity with us?

[This message edited by sisoon at 4:20 PM, July 5th (Friday)]


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sisoon - I took the ruling of the forum into account in making my escape... err... decision.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't laptops work on restaurant patios??


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You already took the advice I would have offered


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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wannabenormal
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Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Late to party, but hooky here too.

I had ONE phone call today...it was from the girl who sits behind me to say, "I wanted you to have at least ONE call today".



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click4it
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Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOL...I see a lot of us were in the same boat today. I too was totally bored and everyone left at 3pm. I could have easily left at that time, but since I was out all week, I figured it was my duty to stay. So, I compromised and left at 4:45pm.


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My philosophy prof gave me a general principle on this sort of question. Here it is:

On the first nice Spring day in 1964, he started class off with,

'...Will the stars stop in their tracks if we stop and enjoy the wonderful day? ... No. ... Class dismissed.'


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10582 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
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