No way to track down how he might have paid for it... a credit check perhaps might show a line of credit, or a credit card you were/are unaware of.
Cause - I'd be thinking that's exactly where it came from...
Sorry - that sucks!
I think you're exactly right :( I'm so sorry.
I wonder why he won't cop to it? Maybe he thinks it'd be a dealbreaker? He should know better...lying to a BS is salt in the wound!
But of course, you're right. He probably did give it to her.
It seems that when an affair partner is also a ho-worker, the only solution is for one of them to find employment elsewhere. I'm sorry you're going through this. I've been there, and I know how it feels.
Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M