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User Topic: Signs of life
EvolvingSoul
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Default  Posted: 4:59 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BS and I had such a good day yesterday. We washed the car, shopped together, made really good food and watched fireworks over the town and ocean from our perch up here in the mountains. Just normal stuff for a fourth of July, from the outside, but from the inside it felt like so much more.

I remember Mount St Helens erupting in 1980 and the total destruction of the surrounding landscape that followed. Some time ago I read an article that showed the beginning of the regrowth process. Tiny, determined plants pushing doggedly up through the cracks of devastation. That's what yesterday felt like to me.

I said this to BS as we sat there watching the distant bursts of color and light, and he said he felt it too.

What a great day.


Me: WS (53)
Him: Shards (48)
D-day: June 6, 2010
Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010
NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

Digging our way through.


Posts: 312 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Turning the corner.
BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like a great day for both of you. We had a great day too. Something that would not have been appreciated in past years.

(I was to the east in the path of the ash...very weird expeience...)


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6103 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
SurprisinglyOkay
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Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


FWS me 37 (recovering addict)
BS him 40 AFrayedKnot
Together 7 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1153 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
SandAway
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Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

and he said he felt it too.

Very cool


fWW
BH Tred
M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


Posts: 439 | Registered: Dec 2012
EvolvingSoul
♀ 29972
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes when he said it I replied that it was so heartening to hear. But the way I said it was much calmer than how I was suddenly feeling. Inside my heart was doing the Snoopy dance!


Me: WS (53)
Him: Shards (48)
D-day: June 6, 2010
Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010
NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

Digging our way through.


Posts: 312 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Turning the corner.
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This post made me so happy to read. Snoopy Dance indeed!



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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