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User Topic: Offering hope
♀ 28069
Member # 28069
Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi all! It's been a loooong while since I've been on here. I went through my "ordeal" over two years ago now. It took a long time to process everything, but I have moved on and am remarried now, to a Wonderful, Loving, Supportive man who went through similar experiences. And, we are expecting our first ( and only) child together!

One of the key things for me was making sure I had healed myself before moving into this new relationship. I tried dating before I was ready, and found myself making old mistakes. once I decided that I was going to spend some time just getting to know myself, and not " looking" for anyone to date, I was able to become the person I wanted to be. And then, when I met my husband by chance, I was ready.

Just letting you all know that new beginnings are possible, but don't try to rush it! Heal yourself Completely first. I was to the point that I was no longer mad at my exwh, and I could genuinely wish him happiness and genuinely feel nothing other than general human emotions toward him.

Posts: 75 | Registered: Mar 2010
♀ 38865
Member # 38865
Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a great post! It gave me hope that in time, when I am ready, I too might get the chance to experience real love.

Im looking forward to it. So glad you have found it.

Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore

"Ive learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". Maya Angelou

Posts: 756 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
♂ 26023
Member # 26023
Default  Posted: 11:26 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are you offering hope that one can enter into a truly loving relationship once one is healed?

If so, what's the shelf life for healing? How long do you have after a good healing before loneliness works its poison?

Or is the hope you offer even better, that one need never long for a partner again?

Pardon my curmudgeon-ness. I think I'd better go do some more healing.

BH, now divorced

Posts: 3012 | Registered: Oct 2009
♂ 26023
Member # 26023
Default  Posted: 11:35 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry, ignore my post.

I'm happy for you.

Maybe one day I'll find whatever the hell I'm looking for as well.

BH, now divorced

Posts: 3012 | Registered: Oct 2009
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