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User Topic: The little things...
Bluebird26
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Member # 36445
Default  Posted: 5:15 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well I think I finally belong down here in NB

I have just got back from a holiday with my kids and it was awesome

The kids had a great time!

We didn't even think of xwh until we were souvenir shopping before departure and a fleeting thought about the crap he used to buy but the thought was more about how I don't have to tolerate his clutter/hoarding anymore.

Xwh tried making all sorts of threats trying to stop us taking this holiday, but I didn't let him control me/us anymore yay me

We have been on holidays since the DDay but I would always end up in tears, a bubbling mess or me putting a brave face on for the kids. Not this time. I didn't need too.

On the way to the airport one of my kids made a joke, it wasn't particularly funny but I was in hysterics I was laughing so much I was in tears. It was that moment right there I realised hey I am ok. I am more than ok. Its been a long long time since I have laughed like that.

Bring on the future I am ready to face it now.


Me: BW

Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.

Life's good.


Posts: 1530 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 19684 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!! So fantastic, Bluebird.


You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
― The Doctor


Posts: 36408 | Registered: Aug 2011
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOVE LOVE LOVE this!

Welcome!


We have been on holidays since the DDay but I would always end up in tears, a bubbling mess or me putting a brave face on for the kids. Not this time. I didn't need too.

^^I had this even before DD. He seriously always sucked the joy out of the room unless he was drunk or on his way to getting drunk.

#FunKiller


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5961 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
newnormal
♀ 21925
Member # 21925
Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

 but the thought was more about how I don't have to tolerate his clutter/hoarding anymore.

Laughter feels so good, doesnt it?


BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo


Posts: 1034 | Registered: Dec 2008
caregiver9000
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Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will stand up and celebrate not hoarding clutter with you!

Love this post.


Me: 45, independent, happy, despite parallel parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 15 DS 12
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 6881 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
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