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User Topic: Father of the year... not
wildbananas
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Revenge  Posted: 10:30 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Long story short, last night, ex-asshat sent away baby banana and told her she too wasn't welcome at his house. And why? Because she was so stressed out there, she melted down and cried for me and to come home.

She's 10.

And he wonders why his children can't stand him.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15449 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 10:33 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

that's just heartbreaking.(((babybanana)))


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12187 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sooo sooo glad she has you to come home to. While you can't take away her pain... you can show her your love, and she will know that she is worthy of love, kindness and respect because you will teach her that.


Can I nominate him for the Biggest Dick Award? He has some stiff competition....
Hoping ^^^^made you smile just a wee bit.

Don't forget ... The Banana's ROCK.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5746 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 10:43 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What an ass.
I feel so bad for Baby Girlnana. Big hugs to her.

Thank goodness she has you, WB.


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Married 4, together 7yrs total
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DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 11:00 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

t/j:

Can I nominate him for the Biggest Dick Award? He has some stiff competition

Kajem, you're killin' Smalls; you're goddam killin' me!

I'm sorry, wb; he is indeed a dick. You're girls are such dolls; his loss.


Hallelujah! Holy shit! Where's the tylenol?

Posts: 20561 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can I nominate him for the Biggest Dick Award? He has some stiff competition

And thanks... she's a pretty good kid. I like her (and her sisters) a little bit.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((baby banana)))

Poor little banana. How's she feeling today?


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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

10 years old?

I'm glad you see his behavior so clearly for what it is.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((babynana))))) I'm sorry he's such an ass.


You can call me NIK

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aLadypilot
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a POS!


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Posts: 4086 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Twin Cities
kernel
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Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What an ass. I can never understand people that treat their own children so badly. Then they blame the kid for it. My heart hurts for her. Don't forget to document, document, document.

I just want to give her a hug. (((baby banana)))


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She's okay, jo... she's actually in a pretty good mood right now. I think she's relieved she doesn't have to go back there anymore. Sad but I'm glad she's okay for the moment.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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BrokenPieces
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Default  Posted: 7:08 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a turd... I'm so sorry for your sweet nana girl.


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Posts: 2291 | Registered: Jul 2005 | From: Greater Seattle Area
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad she's doing ok. So glad she has the best banana in the bunch as a momma.

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persevere
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Default  Posted: 3:19 AM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is not ok - he's a fuck head...but I'm glad she's doing better....

And he totally deserves the biggest Dick award....


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Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
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Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
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Posts: 4715 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He's told your girls that they are not welcome in his home? Then the best thing is for you to help them grow and thrive without him. They will be much better off without all that stress.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3527 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
missherlots
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Wink  Posted: 1:05 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

you do not worry. he is setting his own bed for the future.

He will regret it later and it will be too late, besides they have you!!!!

Hug her and tell her how much you love her. she will remember it for the rest of her life.
my two cents

[This message edited by missherlots at 1:05 PM, July 7th (Sunday)]


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hurtinky
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Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow. What an idiot.

Can you get your custody agreement changed? He doesn't sound mature or stable enough to care for children.
I'd be concerned about him having any overnights with the kids.

Sounds like a selfish, stupid, childish, immature f*ck up to me.


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D-Day 9-12-2005
S 9-13-2005
D 3-6-12



Posts: 1500 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: Kentucky
better4me
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Poor thing! Glad she's feeling better today and I'm really really really glad she's got you for a mama!


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willowiris
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your poor baby girl. I want to kick him in the balls. So sorry, sweetie.


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