I posted a while back about two weird pictures that were on my H's phone. They looked like innocent profile pics that one might have on their work email, nothing risqué or otherwise alarming. I deleted those pics myself, found out that a few people here have the same style of phone and their phone randomly downloads pics as well. I though, ok, I dodged a bullet on that one.
There haven't been any other pics on his phone until 2 days ago. Granted, I don't look at it every day, but I look at it at least once a week. So when I checked it 2 days ago, I saw another similar photo, a pic of a woman standing in a parking lot holding a soda, pictured from head to mid calf. Still looked like a profile pic of some sort, but probably not a work one as she was wearing some summer attire.
I didn't say anything to H about seeing the pic. On the 4th, a neighbor came over while we were lighting off fireworks and H wanted to show him a pic on his phone and I was standing right next to him. He pulls up the pics, and I can see this profile pic plain as day. H shows the pic he wanted to the neighbor, and then that was that. I wanted to see what would happen as now I'm fully aware that H knows that pic is on his phone also.
So the next day I check his phone, the pic is gone. He deleted it without coming to me and showing it to me and questioning where it came from. So I asked him about it last night, all I said was "what happened to the picture". He knew what I was talking about and said "I deleted it, I figured you'd seen it already". I said that it did not matter if he "thought" I had seen it, he didn't know for a fact that I had, and him deleting it before me for sure seeing it was a huge violation. I also told him how it was so unusual that these "glitch" pictures just happen to ALL be of the type of woman that he likes to chase, and not a single man in the group. He said "I'm sorry" and tried to snuggle, I told him not to touch me. He leaves the room to go to the computer room and I'm thinking he's researching glitches on his phone to see if this is a common issue. Nope, he's just doing work. Comes out and acts like everything is normal.
We go to bed, I basically 180'ed him all night. Lights go off and he rolls over and says "I'm sorry I deleted that picture, I'm sorry I didn't show you". And that was the last word to be uttered by either of us all night.
So I guess I'm back to having to put some spyware on his phone to see what he's really up to. I'm still so confused because the time stamp on the pic was from 2012, and he didn't even have that phone in 2012 and I'm positive it wasn't there a month ago when we had the initial problem with it. The phone isn't really being helpful with details about where the pic came from and when. So I need to get some spyware on there so I can get it all figured out properly and make sense of it, but it really pisses me off that I even have to worry about this. Why couldn't he have just kept his freaking pants on in the first place?!?!?!?! GAHHHHH!