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User Topic: Just a laugh
♀ 39134
Member # 39134
Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The VAR conversation to me showed that he was telling her he was interested in sex, something he said that in this encounter they had never alluded to.

She says something and says she was just trying to make him laugh.

He says, "Well I know a better way you can make me laugh and feel better, heh heh"

I say he was referencing sex. He says no not at all not ever.

I ask well, what else could you have been talking about? What else could you have been saying was a better way to make you laugh...heh heh?

He stumbles and says well, I could have been suggesting that she... TICKLE me...actually, with a straight face.

yeah...right, ELMO.

Posts: 572 | Registered: Apr 2013
♀ 39588
Member # 39588
Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Me (BS): 35
Him (fWS): 36
Married 16 years 6 kids ages 15-6
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013

Finally this is R 8/14/13

"Forgiving is a journey; the deeper the wound, the longer the journey".

Posts: 299 | Registered: Jun 2013
♀ 18429
Member # 18429
Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh wow, it boggles my mind the lame garbage they come up with to cover their lies. Tickle him? Well, he was telling the truth actually.... he was referring to her tickling his pickle. So he WAS telling the truth, he just didn't finish the sentence.

My H used to always make those kinds of comments to the OW's, they would be alluding to sex, then he would say "hehehe". Like he's a 9 year old boy and can't talk about sex like an adult suddenly. Lame! Whatever.

DDay - Dec '07
Me - BS
Him - FWS
Us - Committed
May 18, 2010 - I forgave him fully!
"Behold, I have refined thee, but not with silver; I have chosen thee in the furnace of affliction." Isaiah 48:10

Posts: 3859 | Registered: Feb 2008
♂ 36857
Member # 36857
Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You're right. He wants hinting and not very subtly.


I noticed in your profile that one of your interests is being happy, but your screen name is MainlyInPain. You also have a H who has cheated on you and is suggesting sex with other women. No happiness on that train. Why don't you divorce his miserable ass?

Me: BH 58.........Her: WW 45
DD: 8..........DS: 5 (5 and 2 on DDay)
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
"It's like a nightmare within a nightmare, which in and of itself is a n

Posts: 1086 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: U.S.A.
♀ 24924
Member # 24924
Default  Posted: 10:11 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, MIP!

Unbelievable! This is one for the "Dumb Things the WS Said" thread we had some time ago.

Sometimes I wish we could videotape them and make them watch it later.

Me-50 BW

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M

Posts: 3204 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Ohio
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