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The VAR conversation to me showed that he was telling her he was interested in sex, something he said that in this encounter they had never alluded to.

She says something and says she was just trying to make him laugh.

He says, "Well I know a better way you can make me laugh and feel better, heh heh"

I say he was referencing sex. He says no not at all not ever.

I ask well, what else could you have been talking about? What else could you have been saying was a better way to make you laugh...heh heh?

He stumbles and says well, I could have been suggesting that she... TICKLE me...actually, with a straight face.

yeah...right, ELMO.

Oh wow, it boggles my mind the lame garbage they come up with to cover their lies. Tickle him? Well, he was telling the truth actually.... he was referring to her tickling his pickle. So he WAS telling the truth, he just didn't finish the sentence.

My H used to always make those kinds of comments to the OW's, they would be alluding to sex, then he would say "hehehe". Like he's a 9 year old boy and can't talk about sex like an adult suddenly. Lame! Whatever.

MIP,

You're right. He wants hinting and not very subtly.

T/J...sorry

I noticed in your profile that one of your interests is being happy, but your screen name is MainlyInPain. You also have a H who has cheated on you and is suggesting sex with other women. No happiness on that train. Why don't you divorce his miserable ass?

Oh, MIP!

Unbelievable! This is one for the "Dumb Things the WS Said" thread we had some time ago.

Sometimes I wish we could videotape them and make them watch it later.