It feels like until detachment is complete, I am in this mindfuck. Waffle texted me to get the case number for our divorce so he could sign up for the parenting seminar. I couldn't get my head around that. "Hey defendant, it's me, plaintiff. Do you have the case number again?"
I texted him about logistics of him picking up the kids for his summer parenting time. I get a text back about his freaking bike, how he busted the tires, but luckily he could use the ones from blah-di-fucking-blah..
Next day, I get an unsolicited update with how he did for time on his ride, and some chit chat about the Tour de France. MOW not into biking?
He talks about divorce like he's totally detached from the process. But I still get the cake eating chit chat. Yes, NC, but it isn't helping me detach.
He wanted to withdraw the D and go back to legal S. Except he refused to meet my conditions for that to even be on the table.
A friend notices I don't wear rings any more (that's been a while) and then says she's sure she's seen him with his on (our kids are in the same swimming class, we alternated weekends). I've never seen him wear it, does he wear it around town at random? If so, why??
I know detachment and time will help. I just need to try and process all this in a way that helps me move on. At least he doesn't love bomb me.
[This message edited by roughroadahead at 5:08 PM, July 6th (Saturday)]