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I only cried 4 times today...
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thecosmogirl posted 7/6/2013 22:15 PM
..and I'm calling that progress!!
Yeah, the day isn't quite over but, that is the lowest count since Dday so, seems like a milestone or something.
Now who is going to bake me a cake or something?
Williesmom posted 7/6/2013 22:17 PM
Woohoo!! That's progress. Keep going!
Tripletrouble posted 7/6/2013 22:18 PM
We take our victories where we can! Sending you a virtual cake! 
byHisGrace posted 7/7/2013 10:42 AM
It takes time. I cried everyday for a few weeks then only a few times a week. Now I only cry when I talk about it (and occasionally when I think too much). Take your victories as they come, I'm baking you a cake now, decorated with a huge smile.
njgal480 posted 7/7/2013 11:13 AM
That is progress.
I cried every day, most of the day for a year after d-day! I was traumatized by his LTA.
Then it was once a week for another year....and gradually, because my FWH was doing everything he could to help with the R it kept getting better.
I would love to bake you a cake! Things may seem bleak now but they will get better.
It just takes time.
Skan posted 7/7/2013 11:30 AM
Welp, I tried, but it didn't come through. But congratulations anyway!
[This message edited by Skan at 11:31 AM, July 7th, 2013 (Sunday)]
brokenhearted76 posted 7/7/2013 12:42 PM
Huge hugs!! Take every victory no matter how small!! Ive thought the tears were never going to stop. Then for a few hours they would. Its only been a month and a few days since dday for me. And still there are days that all i wanna do is cry.
Daisy312 posted 7/7/2013 13:05 PM
That really is progress! I know it's hard, but try and focus on the positives. There will soon be days that you don't shed any tears, and also days you might actually put the A out of your mind for a whole day! It's so consuming in the beginning! Hang in there!