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InnerLight (original poster member #19946) posted at 6:25 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
I dreamt that XwH wanted to give me a special gift of a locket. In the dream I was somehow still w X while dating SO for 3 years. X's voice was all soft and sweet as he handed me the necklace. Very much like he was IRL. But the glass on the cover of the locket was cracked, and inside were a few words and images that were jumbled. You could rearrange the words and images to make your own meaning.
IRL I haven't seen XH in 4 years. We've talked on the phone 2x, and there have been a few brief, business-like emails. My psyche still seems to be trying to work something out about X. The dream seems to say that I will never really know how X felt about me in our 20 year relationship, he gave me something broken and I can give the relationship whatever meaning I want to (by rearranging the words on the locket). It's just a busted puzzle.
The amazing subconscious....
BS, 64 yearsD-day 6-2-08D after 20 years together
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 11:16 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
Trying to work out the past, is a puzzle, through dreams. It is like having a few important pieces missing.
The last dream I had of FT, I woke laughing because he's having a baby with Twat.
I was WTF are YOU thinking at 74 yrs old ?????
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 2:24 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013
I usually wake up laughing too. And thinking 'wtf'.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
roughroadahead ( member #36060) posted at 4:01 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013
Waffle has been in my dreams a lot in the last couple of days and I usually wake up disturbed. It is always us together, but not sexual (thank god). There were two that were vivid. One where we were just standing there and holding me, without saying anything. It just feltcomfortable in the dream, confusing when I woke up. The other one, he was carrying me by piggy back across the parking lot outside the autism school (I am there daily in real life) saying "i'd forgotten how easy this is", then saying "what are we going to do now?" when we got back to the car.
I hate when dreams make you more confused when you wake up than when you went to sleep. Apparently my subconscious has not gotten the message.
BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism
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