..makes one's blood boil!!
..i'd be puttin' the BIG CHILL on them for quite a while.. fuck that 2-faced approach they're tryin' to pull.
..no way you need to roll over on this one.
My decision, I don't need anyone in my life that treats me like crap. If you can't see what a wonderful caring person I am then its your loss.
I'd say try to get some healthy space from them. Not a war, and not NC, just some elbow room so you don't have to pretend like everything's fine.
What's really important is that your WH supports you and understands how this feels like a multiple betrayal. Perhaps he can talk with them and they can all come to some kind of apology, if they do feel remorse for bandwaggoning....
Either way, you shouldn't be subjected to playing nice-nice when your heart hurts.
Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16
MIL is the biggest two faced see you next tuesday,ever
'cracked me up!!!'
i told my husband they are not friends of the marriage.
i have nothing to say to them...and i dont think i can ever "let that go."
what's funny is that the ow was the one who shared that they were talking to her...rubbing it in my face. i hope they feel like idiots.
Trying wicked hard - never giving up.
Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller
I really don't care about ow. Which still amazes me, because I assumed that I would really hate ow, be affected by her, and really, she's a non-entity. I've never been upset by her.
And wh. He was diagnosed as bipolar 1 and admitted a prescription drug abuse problem ( ow is a nurse... Convenient)
So who am I the most upset with... The in laws! I begged them to help when I found pills in wh bag when we visited them.. Nothing. They were friends with ow and even emailed about how to break the court order ... Ow wanted to see our kids at visits, and it was court ordered she not do that. They emailed about telling the kids her name was different, so if they were asked in court, they wouldn't perjur themselves.
My mil even emailed ow over and over bad mouthing me, saying gotta is not worth you getting upset, I'm so sorry she's acting like this... Thank you for helping my son... Gotta thinks she is so smart, even her mother will get tired if her attitude soon...
Stuff like that.
Now, mil is two faced & Hugs me, etc... we see them 2x a year, would love to stop that but the kids like their cousins who did nothing.
Should have known this would happen, my mil and sil wore black to our wedding. and the groomsman, a cousin, took wh aside before walking down the aisle and said, you want to back out, its not too late... I got the car outside and we can just go.