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gypsybird87 posted 7/7/2013 13:40 PM

So I've been doing really good, more up days than down... getting things accomplished around the house and feeling really empowered. Today I decide to tackle syncing my itunes crap. Music, photos etc. There are still photos of XWH on my phone and I want them off of there! Not necessarily deleted forever, but definitely not in my face everyday, you know?

I am not techy AT ALL, and I have never had a good grasp on itunes, icloud, synching and that stuff. XWH was a whiz at it, and did it for me. Long story short, I am failing tragically at trying to figure this out today. I got the photos off my phone, thank god, but the music is still all screwed up and the Apple store wants $99 to help me figure it out, IF they have someone available that knows PC stuff instead of Mac, since I have an ipad and an iphone, but a Dell laptop.

So now I'm in tears over this and feeling so pathetic to be affected by something so DUMB when I have faced bigger challenges over the last weeks and been fine. I hate getting ambushed by my own emotions like this, and I hate even more that moment of wishing I could call XWH, since it would take him about 2 seconds to handle this and I've been fighting with it for an hour.

I guess I just needed to vent. Thanks for listening.

Amazonia posted 7/7/2013 13:48 PM

I will admit that I ask a friend from work, who works in IT, to help me with this sort of thing. Is there an acquaintance or friend who could help?

PhantomLimb posted 7/7/2013 13:50 PM

I'm with you. Dday for me was when I had to get my grades in and WS had always helped me with the formulas on my xcl sheet. We were in the middle of a move and so I still have a whole bunch of electronics (Wii and whatnot) that I have no idea how to hook up! Would have taken him 10 secs.

I found a techy friend to help with the grades and he is going to teach me to make my own (I made sure to make an arrangement for a lesson). When I'm strong enough, I'll tackle the other electronics and call customer service if I have to. Ask around to see if any friends or friends of friends have knowledge/advice.

And when you figure this stuff out on your own, you're going to feel awesome. The first couple of weeks I would leave home an extra hour early to make sure I didn't get lost on my way to new places in the city, etc (WS used to do most of the driving) and when I'd find a place on my own, it felt great. Something I so relied on him for and turns out I always had it in me. It will be the same for you.

ButterflyGirl posted 7/7/2013 14:35 PM

I usually Google stuff I don't know how to do.. I'm not that great either with techy stuff, but there are some really good tutorials online, so I would recommend looking around on there.. Google has been my lifesaver quite a few times, lol..

When I need to know a good porn site or how to lie to and manipulate everyone in my life including my lawyer, family, friends, spouse, and co-workers, I'll give him a call..

gypsybird87 posted 7/8/2013 18:21 PM

Hi gals,

Thanks for your responses. I have asked around for techy friends, and friends of friends.... we'll see if some help turns up. I have also used Google for help on a number of things. For some reason it didn't occur to me to try it for this problem. I will check it out. Thanks, Butterfly Girl!

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