Topic: Mojo, please...
Member # 33698
| Posted: 3:26 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013|
The kids are coming back tonight at 6:00 pm-- I'm presuming that the wedding took place. I want to be calm, supportive, and able to keep a smile on my face. I need some SI zen mojo today if you have any.
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 4079 | Registered: Oct 2011
Member # 31528
| Posted: 3:49 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013|
Sending super SI mojo, strength, hugs, and chocolate.
Posts: 45947 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 38377
| Posted: 3:55 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013|
Lots of mojo!!
Was just telling my sister yesterday how hard it is to hear the kids talk about OW and just say, "That's nice," instead of, "Oh, you mean rotten dirty slut who helped ruin our family?"
Keep taking the high road girl.. I know it's not easy.. You're not alone..
Two DS~ 9 and 12
Posts: 3002 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida
Member # 28622
| Posted: 4:04 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013|
One thing that helped me was to imagine putting (insert unbelievable horror of infidelity) on SI later. It sometimes helped me to frame it in humor or kept me from acting like an idiot (sometimes)... And no matter what, I knew I would get hugs and acceptance when it was posted.
I'll be here!!
Me: 45, independent, happy, despite parallel parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 15 DS 12
Posts: 6953 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
Member # 20024
| Posted: 4:10 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013|
Sending mojo your way.
DDay #1 Tried R
DDAY #2 Divorcing
Burn everything love then burn the ashes.
Posts: 247 | Registered: Jun 2008
Member # 24518
| Posted: 4:13 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013|
mojo and hugs (((ta74)))
Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing we'll ever do. ~ Brené Brown
Posts: 12643 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartof, Texas
Member # 8142
| Posted: 4:33 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013|
Sending potent mojo and huge hugs!
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
Posts: 25632 | Registered: Sep 2005
Member # 23890
| Posted: 4:34 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013|
Breathe in, breathe out!
Pleasant Stepford smile...
and when the kids are in bed - we'll hold the pillows for you to pound...
Meanwhile - breathe in - breath out... and major peace-loving mojo!
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
Posts: 4430 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
Member # 32265
| Posted: 4:36 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013|
Sending a boatload....
Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.
Posts: 638 | Registered: May 2011
Member # 18334
| Posted: 6:04 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013|
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
Posts: 4860 | Registered: Feb 2008
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