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tryingagain74 posted 7/7/2013 15:26 PM

The kids are coming back tonight at 6:00 pm-- I'm presuming that the wedding took place. I want to be calm, supportive, and able to keep a smile on my face. I need some SI zen mojo today if you have any.

jo2love posted 7/7/2013 15:49 PM

Sending super SI mojo, strength, hugs, and chocolate.

ButterflyGirl posted 7/7/2013 15:55 PM

Lots of mojo!!

Was just telling my sister yesterday how hard it is to hear the kids talk about OW and just say, "That's nice," instead of, "Oh, you mean rotten dirty slut who helped ruin our family?"

Keep taking the high road girl.. I know it's not easy.. You're not alone..

Hugs..

caregiver9000 posted 7/7/2013 16:04 PM

zen mojo!!

One thing that helped me was to imagine putting (insert unbelievable horror of infidelity) on SI later. It sometimes helped me to frame it in humor or kept me from acting like an idiot (sometimes)... And no matter what, I knew I would get hugs and acceptance when it was posted.

I'll be here!!

(((trying)))

hangingontohope7 posted 7/7/2013 16:10 PM

Sending mojo your way.

inconnu posted 7/7/2013 16:13 PM

mojo and hugs (((ta74)))

dreamlife posted 7/7/2013 16:33 PM

Sending potent mojo and huge hugs!

Take2 posted 7/7/2013 16:34 PM

Breathe in, breathe out!

Pleasant Stepford smile...

and when the kids are in bed - we'll hold the pillows for you to pound...

Meanwhile - breathe in - breath out... and major peace-loving mojo!

soveryweary posted 7/7/2013 16:36 PM

Sending a boatload....

peridot posted 7/7/2013 18:04 PM

Mojo!!!