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tryingagain74 (original poster member #33698) posted at 9:26 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
The kids are coming back tonight at 6:00 pm-- I'm presuming that the wedding took place. I want to be calm, supportive, and able to keep a smile on my face. I need some SI zen mojo today if you have any.
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 9:49 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
Sending super SI mojo, strength, hugs, and chocolate.
ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 9:55 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
Lots of mojo!!
Was just telling my sister yesterday how hard it is to hear the kids talk about OW and just say, "That's nice," instead of, "Oh, you mean rotten dirty slut who helped ruin our family?"
Keep taking the high road girl.. I know it's not easy.. You're not alone..
Hugs..
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 10:04 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
zen mojo!!
One thing that helped me was to imagine putting (insert unbelievable horror of infidelity) on SI later. It sometimes helped me to frame it in humor or kept me from acting like an idiot (sometimes)... 
And no matter what, I knew I would get hugs and acceptance when it was posted.
I'll be here!!
(((trying)))
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
hangingontohope7 ( member #20024) posted at 10:10 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
Me: BW
DDay #1 Tried R
DDAY #2 Divorcing
Burn everything love then burn the ashes.
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 10:13 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 10:33 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
Sending potent mojo and huge hugs!
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 10:34 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
Breathe in, breathe out!
Pleasant Stepford smile...
and when the kids are in bed - we'll hold the pillows for you to pound...
Meanwhile - breathe in - breath out... and major peace-loving mojo!
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
soveryweary ( member #32265) posted at 10:36 PM on Sunday, July 7th, 2013
Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.
peridot ( member #18334) posted at 12:04 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
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