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So I was out in the garage and I found...

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 Nature_Girl (original poster member #32554) posted at 2:17 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

So I was out in the garage today packing up some more of STBX's stuff and found something. It actually hasn't affected me very much, mostly I feel pity.

What did I find?

I found a love note from the prostitute to STBX. Apparently they were engaged at one point! I didn't know that. I knew about her, but had no idea they were engaged.

Who proposes marriage to a hooker, anyway?

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 2:20 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

(((NG)))

I knew this was you as soon as I read garage...

I imagine you could send your tales in to syfy and maybe they would do a show about your garage. I don't know if it should be a documentary or a mystery though.

?Who indeed proposes to a prostitute...

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Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 2:21 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

Glad it didn't reopen any wounds!

Now, if I had found something like that I would have been accused of invading his privacy by going thru his stuff for the sole purpose of looking for things to use against him!!!

Laugh at it for what it is...a joke!

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Adult Kids
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You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

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FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 2:25 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

OMG, that's so... bizarre....

And I was expecting penis pump or something similar.

You can't make this shit up!

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:30 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

Lord. I can't imagine the level of Kool-aid consumption required to do that.

My offer stands to show up at your garage with a lit match and a big bag of plausible deniability for you.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 2:38 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

I knew it was you, when I saw the title. LOL.

I'll help NIK, that way you have an alibi also.

Wow...

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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 Nature_Girl (original poster member #32554) posted at 2:56 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

What I find shocking and pathetic is that STBX was completely in love with her. Yet he knew she was a hooker who had a boyfriend/pimp & everything. But he went ahead & fell in love with her anyway, was jealous that she had sex with other guys, the whole nine yards.

I feel sorry for him. How messed up in the head do you have to be to fall in love with a hooker who you met because you paid for her services, and then be jealous of what she does for a living? When I think of what it must be like to live in STBX's head, man, what a terrifying place.

I'm so glad I'm free!

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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cayc ( member #21964) posted at 3:00 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

Who proposes marriage to a hooker, anyway?

An idiot, that's who. But then you knew that already didn't you!

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:04 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

I'm so glad I'm free!

So are we, sweetie.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 3:41 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

I'm relieved that it was just a love note! I once went on a walking tour of houses in an incredible neighborhood, and I heard people talking about one of the houses that had just been renovated. When the owners went up into the attic to start cleaning it out for renovation, they found jars and jars of the previous owner's urine! Whenever I see your garage thread titles, I'm afraid it's going to be about jars of urine or worse...

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Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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MyReturn2Me ( member #34352) posted at 3:44 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

After a while you just gotta roll your eyes at this shit

(((NG)))

Me: BS 51 and Freaking AWESOME!
Him: Who the fuck cares........

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ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 3:52 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

I'm so glad I'm free!

I'm so glad you're free too. A terrifying place his mind must be indeed.. Maybe he thinks he's Richard Gere from Pretty Woman

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 Nature_Girl (original poster member #32554) posted at 3:59 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

Whenever I see your garage thread titles, I'm afraid it's going to be about jars of urine or worse...

AMEN!

One of these days I'll have to give all y'all the rundown on the book that STBX & the hooker were writing together. Here's a hint: it's a sex book.

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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debbysbaby ( member #32962) posted at 4:04 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

We have been overdue for a garage thread, NG.

Hugs. What a stupid moron.

-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004

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homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 4:07 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

Wait a minute,,shouldn't you give this to your atty?

Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55

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 Nature_Girl (original poster member #32554) posted at 4:47 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

Atty doesn't care. It's "old news". Anyways, this stuff is really tame compared to the other stuff.

Someday I'm going to write a book.

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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Grace and Flowers ( member #34431) posted at 7:58 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

Ah, it's been a while since we've heard sbout the garage.

I agree with cg9000....SyFy would love your garage. It's kind of like a portal to another dimension. It would have to be a documentary on "The Haunting of NGs Garage", because no fiction writer could ever write a screenplay that is as fucked up as what has actually happened in that garage.

Thanks for the update.

Divorced since 2012

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peridot ( member #18334) posted at 8:08 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

I think you need to gut the garage, walls and all. There's no telling what else you will find.

I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.

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 Nature_Girl (original poster member #32554) posted at 8:15 AM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

There used to be a show back in the 80's, and nowadays there's a similar show titled "Warehouse 13", in which haunted items have to be retrieved and brought back to a place for safekeeping. My garage makes me think of that concept. Lots of haunted items that reveal themselves to me one by one, then I have to battle the demons they unleash.

You know, I never would have found the stuff I found if STBX wasn't A) such a packrat who B) also would take my stuff & squirrel it away in the garage (that is when he didn't just outright throw my shit away). But since he was such a packrat, and because I did want to find my stuff, I started going through boxes. I realized that he'd deliberately mixed up present-day stuff with old stuff from the 80's & 90's. He'd deliberately mixed up his stuff with my stuff. So unless I wanted to throw away my own things I had to go through every single m-fing box out there. Item by item. And that's how I've managed to find most of the things.

Hmmmm, so if I pitch this to SyFy, who should play me? Hmmmmm..... Something fun to think about.

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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KickedintheGut ( member #30086) posted at 2:46 PM on Monday, July 8th, 2013

I love your garage threads!

I am completely curious as to what you would find if you gutted the garage. I could seriously see your STBX hiding the mysterious disappearing items from your house in the walls.

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DDay#1 - 11/9/10 - 2 year EA/PA
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