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Marley76
♀ 39506
Member # 39506
Default  Posted: 9:44 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm back out there again online dating. I know it's soon but socially I really miss being out there..around people. My eXBF didnt pay much attention to me towards the end and he was never social. I miss life! And yes...boys!! LOL! I went out last night and it was fun..what I'm a little freaked out is that I was emotionally disconnected with my date. Like I'm so set on no relationships and trust has been burned to the ground so I'm not even going to bother with being emotional with men. They just use it against me later. Bitter pill..I know. Like I said..I had fun but I'm kind of heartless right now and just seeking casual and physical encounters so to speak. Hope that is not TMI. I know I can be honest here with you all. Just wondering if I'm messed up or okay....


Me: BSO 37yrs old
Him: Old enough to know better.
3 years -raising my 2 daughters and his son
Dday#1 6/7/13 Dday#2 6/9/13
R: not a chance
The further she walked, the stronger her stride became and the louder her broken heart sang. -anonymous.

Posts: 32 | Registered: Jun 2013
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had fun but I'm kind of heartless right now and just seeking casual and physical encounters so to speak.
It's too soon. You know it's too soon. Less than a month after your last DDay? The ending of a 3-year relationship? Um, yeah - way too soon.

You not only risk hurting yourself, you are risking hurting the innocent people you're engaging with, too.

I'm not going to tell you to stay home. But I will remind you that there are thousands of ways to get out there socially without risking someone being hurt.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26198 | Registered: Aug 2011
Marley76
♀ 39506
Member # 39506
Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you. I def need some truth. I don't want to be a bitch or hurt anyone. :(


Me: BSO 37yrs old
Him: Old enough to know better.
3 years -raising my 2 daughters and his son
Dday#1 6/7/13 Dday#2 6/9/13
R: not a chance
The further she walked, the stronger her stride became and the louder her broken heart sang. -anonymous.

Posts: 32 | Registered: Jun 2013
inconnu
♀ 24518
Member # 24518
Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just wondering if I'm messed up or okay....

If you're wondering, then you know you're not okay. Take the time to heal. You're worth it.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12172 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
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