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Marley76 posted 7/7/2013 21:44 PM

I'm back out there again online dating. I know it's soon but socially I really miss being out there..around people. My eXBF didnt pay much attention to me towards the end and he was never social. I miss life! And yes...boys!! LOL! I went out last night and it was fun..what I'm a little freaked out is that I was emotionally disconnected with my date. Like I'm so set on no relationships and trust has been burned to the ground so I'm not even going to bother with being emotional with men. They just use it against me later. Bitter pill..I know. Like I said..I had fun but I'm kind of heartless right now and just seeking casual and physical encounters so to speak. Hope that is not TMI. I know I can be honest here with you all. Just wondering if I'm messed up or okay....

nowiknow23 posted 7/7/2013 21:57 PM

I had fun but I'm kind of heartless right now and just seeking casual and physical encounters so to speak.
It's too soon. You know it's too soon. Less than a month after your last DDay? The ending of a 3-year relationship? Um, yeah - way too soon.

You not only risk hurting yourself, you are risking hurting the innocent people you're engaging with, too.

I'm not going to tell you to stay home. But I will remind you that there are thousands of ways to get out there socially without risking someone being hurt.

Marley76 posted 7/7/2013 22:02 PM

Thank you. I def need some truth. I don't want to be a bitch or hurt anyone. :(

inconnu posted 7/7/2013 22:32 PM

Just wondering if I'm messed up or okay....

If you're wondering, then you know you're not okay. Take the time to heal. You're worth it.

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