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Topic: NB part 2 :)

IrishLass518
♀ 34373
Member # 34373

Posted: 5:25 PM, July 8th (Monday), 2013

Soooooo, on July 3rd I finally blocked xWH and OWifetress on FB. They weren't my Friends but Friends with our kids and other family members and I could see the things that they posted in comments. Really, nothing useful and I realize that anything they were saying or alluding too about me or the kids ultimately reflects bad on them and only them. Today I got the notice in the mail that my Bankruptcy was discharged on July 3rd.

Apparently, I knew it was time to move forward emotionally and financially and it happened on the same day.
Now, I am in control of my future and finances and no one can take that away from me unless I allow it.

Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1858 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA

Chrysalis123
♀ 27148
Member # 27148

Posted: 5:28 PM, July 8th (Monday), 2013

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Posts: 3893 | Registered: Jan 2010

Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134

Posted: 5:36 PM, July 8th (Monday), 2013

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 6679 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida

cass
♀ 24261
Member # 24261

Posted: 6:38 PM, July 8th (Monday), 2013

DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.

When you walk through a storm, hold your head up high - you'll never walk alone.

Posts: 5080 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Scotland

nutmegkitty
♀ 33882
Member # 33882

Posted: 8:36 AM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013

I like your NB part 2!!

me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."

Posts: 2967 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA

nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226

Posted: 10:09 AM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013

Yay!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

Posts: 37287 | Registered: Aug 2011

fraeuken
♀ 30742
Member # 30742

Posted: 10:14 AM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013

Yay, all blocked here too. Feels good. Keep moving forward.

Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1304 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California

IrishLass518
♀ 34373
Member # 34373

Posted: 2:56 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013

Thanks guys and gals and it does feel good. I am sooooo excited about my future for ME and my IrishLad

I can now rebuild MY credit and find just the right car, land and home for me and my boy. I get to decide what furniture and decorations. I get to decide when and where we travel. I get to be ME and that is a huge gift to myself. I told another SI er this morning, "Get YOU back first and then decide if you want HIM/HER back." I am finally here, I am back and I like ME

Posts: 1858 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA

lostmommy
♀ 33440
Member # 33440

Posted: 12:58 PM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013

Congratulations!!!

Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

Posts: 485 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: NY

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