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User Topic: NB part 2 :)
IrishLass518
♀ 34373
Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Soooooo, on July 3rd I finally blocked xWH and OWifetress on FB. They weren't my Friends but Friends with our kids and other family members and I could see the things that they posted in comments. Really, nothing useful and I realize that anything they were saying or alluding too about me or the kids ultimately reflects bad on them and only them. Today I got the notice in the mail that my Bankruptcy was discharged on July 3rd.
Apparently, I knew it was time to move forward emotionally and financially and it happened on the same day.
Now, I am in control of my future and finances and no one can take that away from me unless I allow it.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1858 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Chrysalis123
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Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Posts: 3776 | Registered: Jan 2010
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 6671 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
cass
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Member # 24261
Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay - April 2008
Me - 57 and doing great, alone.

When you walk through a storm, hold your head up high - you'll never walk alone.


Posts: 5064 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
nutmegkitty
♀ 33882
Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like your NB part 2!!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2828 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!


You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
― The Doctor


Posts: 36413 | Registered: Aug 2011
fraeuken
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Member # 30742
Default  Posted: 10:14 AM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay, all blocked here too. Feels good. Keep moving forward.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1304 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
IrishLass518
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Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys and gals and it does feel good. I am sooooo excited about my future for ME and my IrishLad
I can now rebuild MY credit and find just the right car, land and home for me and my boy. I get to decide what furniture and decorations. I get to decide when and where we travel. I get to be ME and that is a huge gift to myself. I told another SI er this morning, "Get YOU back first and then decide if you want HIM/HER back." I am finally here, I am back and I like ME


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1858 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
lostmommy
♀ 33440
Member # 33440
Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

Posts: 485 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: NY
Topic Posts: 9

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