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♀ 39588
Member # 39588
Default  Posted: 9:46 AM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know that will probably never happen but today I'm just so pissed off.

Yes he's working with me and doing most things right but I am struggling with how damn selfish one person can be. Is 2 minutes of pleasure worth destroying the person you claimed to love!?!?! And that's how I feel today - destroyed. This mental torture must be what hell is like and I never in my life could have imagined pain so unbearable before this.

I had to get that out!!!!

Me (BS): 36
Him aka narcissistic psychopath (WS): 36
Married 17 years 6 kids ages 16-7
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013

Finally this is R 8/14/13

Filed for divorce 5/8/15

Posts: 326 | Registered: Jun 2013
♀ 38207
Member # 38207
Default  Posted: 9:55 AM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's so early for you. I'm a very mellow human most of the time. My anger hit at 6 months and is just starting to subside again. Be kind to yourself. Vent here. If you can be calm and rational (I know I can't a lot of the time) share your anger with your husband. Tell him in specific terms why you are angry. Doing that was what finally helped me. Getting it out.

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