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n0tm3 posted 7/9/2013 11:02 AM

I am having a bad day. I am triggering a lot. Reality sucks. The fantasy marriage I had in my mind was a whole lot better. We loved each other. We were faithful and dedicated to each other. We could survive anything together. Our love and relationship had been that strong for 20 years. It was all a fantasy.

TrustGone posted 7/9/2013 11:10 AM

I am so sorry you are having a really bad day. Yes, the fantasy marriage we had was so much better than the reality we are now having to live. It is hard to see our marriage was not what we thought and our WS is not the person we thought we married. I still have days where I want my old marriage and husband back. Unfortunately we can't have them back again and must either create a new marriage with them or start a new life without them. It sucks either way and I just wanted you to know I feel your pain.
(((HUGS)))

simplydevastated posted 7/9/2013 11:13 AM

(((HUGS))) I'm sorry you're hurting today.

nowiknow23 posted 7/9/2013 11:59 AM

(((((n0tm3))))) These days are an uncomfortable yet necessary part of the healing process, honey. Sending you strength and comfort.

thecosmogirl posted 7/9/2013 12:43 PM

I'm having a bad day too. It crushes me so bad that all those times I was telling my friends how awesome he was and he was out getting his afternoon delight

I will send you a cyber margarita and we can watch the ocean waves together (((((big hugs))))

n0tm3 posted 7/9/2013 13:08 PM

I would love the margarita.
I know that it is all part of the process of healing. I wish I could choose to take a break, had some control over the pain and could have him feel what I am feeling for awhile. This is all emotionally exhausting.

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