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User Topic: What am I going to do...
jjsr
♀ 34353
Member # 34353
Helpless  Posted: 3:00 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

trying not to freak but there is a really good chance that the Army is going to move us soon. We will know in a couple weeks.
I am not ready to leave our MC. We love him and he has helped us so much but we are not there yet to stop MC and the thought of starting over in MC after the move after almost 2 yrs with our MC makes me worry. Now, I would so love to leave here as I moved here after dday and this is where FWH has his ONS but I think I had to come to hell here to find this MC. This move would he great for FWH's job in the Army and I hate where we live with a passion but I don't want to leave the MC yet. We are not ready.


Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1659 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Crazz and I moved 8 months after dday and we ended up skyping with our MC for a few months before we found a new one. That way she could still read faces and gestures. It wasn't ideal but it was what we needed at the time and it worked in a pinch.


"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

Posts: 18283 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
PinkJeepLady
♀ 37575
Member # 37575
Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Same here, we have successfully tried skype, face time and phone calls. It's very helpful to keep going to the one who knows your story and who is helping you.
I agree it's not ideal, but it can work. Our MC has been so helpful, I wished she lived with us (can you tell we are not ready to give her up either!) When we do go in person it's a 3 hour round trip drive, but always worth it.
Good luck to you both!


Me: BW-54. Him-FWH 54. DDay June 1st 2012 cheating with prostitutes overseas
R-ing
"Not everything that counts is counted. Not everything that is counted counts." Albert Einstein

Posts: 499 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Out West
jjsr
♀ 34353
Member # 34353
Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well we talked with him tonight and he said we would work something out. We will find out in a couple weeks, so he said if we do go and just have a few sessions left he will make them the most particular sessions, concentrating totally on the biggest stumbling block that we have. He also said that we are better then we think we are. LOL


Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1659 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
FeelingSoMuch
♂ 38814
Member # 38814
Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

During the first month after d-day we needed emergency MC sessions while our therapist was away. We did it over Skype and -- like Jrazz points out -- it's not ideal, it was incredibly helpful.


Me: BH
Her: WW
Together since 2001, married since 2007.
D-day: Feb. 20, 2013.
Broke NC: 2 phone calls since
Today: In MC and IC, attempting R.
It got easier: They no longer work together.

Posts: 509 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Canada
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