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User Topic: Tomorrow....
Flatlined123
♀ 35862
Member # 35862
Default  Posted: 5:24 AM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

will be 5 years since I found out about H affair.

just under a month of 4 years that I found out the affair continued.

God, how my life has changed! I miss that feeling of safety I used to have.

We both feel like things are better. We work on our M every day now.

I don't think tomorrow will hurt as much as it has in years past. I hope not...

The one thing that bothers me yet is that I still have this hate for OW. She went on to get married and it seems didn't suffer at all. I hate that.

I'm hoping tomorrow will just be a normal day, but I'm also hoping H will acknowledge it in some way too. Kind of like putting flowers on a grave in rememberance of when someone died.

IDK, this time of the year is just hard.


Me: BS 43
H : WS 46
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 693 | Registered: Jun 2012
RidingHealingRd
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Member # 33867
Default  Posted: 6:09 AM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

{{{Flatlined123}}}

Wishing you strength and hoping that tomorrow passes quickly and quietly.

No one deserves to live with this *new reality*

Do something really nice for yourself tomorrow.



ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 4 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


Posts: 2134 | Registered: Nov 2011
SorrowBhindSmile
♀ 38139
Member # 38139
Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((flatlined)))))

Take this day and turn it around....recognize your strength, courage and perseverance. I agree with Riding...do something nice for yourself because you deserve it. you are amazing.

hugs to you


Me: BW
Him: WH
OW: My former "dear friend"/neighbor
Married 20+
Kids: 3
D-Day 12/2012
Committed to R 7/8/2013
"Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle"

Posts: 357 | Registered: Jan 2013
Flatlined123
♀ 35862
Member # 35862
Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think we're all amazing. No matter if we stay in the M or leave.

We have been to hell and survived.


Me: BS 43
H : WS 46
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 693 | Registered: Jun 2012
forgivingnow
♀ 33549
Member # 33549
Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"We work on our marriage everyday now"

I love this. We do too. I agree, do something special for yourself but also do something wonderful for both of you, to celebrate what you are today.


Me-BS 51
FWH-51
M 31 yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.
R

Posts: 619 | Registered: Oct 2011
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Flatlined)))

Posts: 36505 | Registered: Mar 2011
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