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Firea111 posted 7/10/2013 11:52 AM

Not sure how forums work hehe

Jrazz posted 7/10/2013 11:56 AM

Welcome to SI.

JFO is for Betrayed Spouses who are dealing with the immediate aftermath of betrayal - whether there was a confession or they are noticing red flags and need help with what to do next.

You're safe here. Take your time and share when you're ready.

[This message edited by Jrazz at 11:57 AM, July 10th (Wednesday)]

Firea111 posted 7/10/2013 12:04 PM

thanks I don't want to sound like a cry baby lol

I read the one person's that he was just numb. That is me at the moment and that scares me to death.

[This message edited by Firea111 at 4:07 PM, July 18th (Thursday)]

confused615 posted 7/10/2013 12:09 PM

Don't worry about sounding sad...we're all sad.

Whine..bitch..cry..scream...throw pillows...go crazy..BTDT...you're safe here.

tushnurse posted 7/10/2013 14:50 PM

Welcome - To the best club no one ever wants to join or be a part of.

I just read your brief profile. It sounds like you are just starting to deal with what is going on. It can be very overwhelming initally. Focus on you. Make sure you are getting the 3 basics. Eating, Sleeping, and staying hydrated. If you are having trouble with those call your Dr. Many of us have to find better living through chemistry in the early days.

Read in the healing library over there on the left side of your screen.

Know that many of us here have been there, done that. It hurts like hell we know. When you are ready share, ask questions, and know that you are safe here. No one wants to hurt you.

womaninflux posted 7/10/2013 15:14 PM

Read your profile. Amazing that 6th sense, huh? However their lying and drive for secrecy is just as strong. Hopefully you can get a counselor for yourself. Also if you want to reconcile you are going to need couples therapy. Don't try to go through this alone. You need someone you trust to talk to. Hopefully someone who is a professional and non partisan.