ME: 55 BS
He very calmly asked me if I wanted to go with him... I beat him to the car!
This made me
You WH did the right thing...good job.
6mo post Dday and we moved, living 1600+ miles away. This alone eliminated so many triggers but sadly not all of them.
Do eliminate any trigger that you can...the less you are faced with, the better.
After 2.5yrs I can honestly say that the roller coaster doesn't fly into my world all that often. I was one hot mess for what seemed like eternity. I did not even recognize the person IP had become and thought that the *old me* was gone forever. Not true...I have been lucky, my WH has been a model WH. Life is 100x better today and I recognize me again.
Hang in there, it will get easier.
HIM: 63 WH
Married: 30 years
in R 4+ years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.