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User Topic: Milestone today
♀ 34602
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I lost my angel baby on February 4, 2013. When my SIL found out (she had 4 miscarriages before having her 3 kids), she encouraged me to start running so I could participate in a 5k she helps organize. It is for the March of Dimes and she said I should run it in memory of the baby. I thought about it. I was about 14 months out from dday and the gym trigger had mostly subsided. March 15th I started couch to 5K. Since then I've continued running. I run 3 miles and lift 2 days a week and 4 miles another. I do weights and other cardio on non-running days. Today weighed in. In almost 4 months I'm down 37.5 pounds and I'm at the weight I was 10 years ago when I got married. So now I'm at pre-three kids weight. Next I need to get to pre-college weight!

Me: 35
WH: 36 TimeToManUp
Married: 14 years, together 19 years
3 daughters: 12, 8, 5, and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)

D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011

This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.

Posts: 1840 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
♀ 10798
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Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry for the loss of your little one. I admire you for your strength. Congratulations on accomplishing your running goals. That has to feel fantastic. I noticed the ages of your three daughters. Mine three are all grown but are spaced exactly like yours--now they are 30, 26 and 23. Time goes by very, very fast.

Good luck on your goal of getting to pre-college weight. That has been so many years and pounds back for me it's hard to remember!

[This message edited by meaniemouse at 8:21 AM, July 11th (Thursday)]

Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James

Posts: 2273 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Midwest
♀ 21101
Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is AWESOME !!!!
You should be proud!!!

I need to start couch to 5k, but have been focusing on loosing some weight first, with my arthritis issues I didn't want to damage joints with all the extra weight. I have hit my goal to start, just got to get up and moving. I see my Dr next week, and he is going to get on me because I haven't started exercising regularly yet too.
(he is so damn cute, I always feel bad whe he gets on me...)

Enought about me, Great Job TCD...You are an inspiration.

Him: FWS
Kids: 18 & 20
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

Posts: 13401 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
♀ 31528
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Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((TCD)))Sending you hugs and strength.

What you have accomplished is amazing! Congrats!!!

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Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You go girl!!

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats TCD - continued success!!

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Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, TCD. Such an inspiration! Well done.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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♀ 36134
Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 4:21 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations on meeting this milestone.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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