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User Topic: Milestone today
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I lost my angel baby on February 4, 2013. When my SIL found out (she had 4 miscarriages before having her 3 kids), she encouraged me to start running so I could participate in a 5k she helps organize. It is for the March of Dimes and she said I should run it in memory of the baby. I thought about it. I was about 14 months out from dday and the gym trigger had mostly subsided. March 15th I started couch to 5K. Since then I've continued running. I run 3 miles and lift 2 days a week and 4 miles another. I do weights and other cardio on non-running days. Today weighed in. In almost 4 months I'm down 37.5 pounds and I'm at the weight I was 10 years ago when I got married. So now I'm at pre-three kids weight. Next I need to get to pre-college weight!

Me: 34
WH: 35 TimeToManUp
Married: 12 years, together 18 years
3 daughters: 10, 7, 4, and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)

D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011

This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.

Posts: 1840 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
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Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry for the loss of your little one. I admire you for your strength. Congratulations on accomplishing your running goals. That has to feel fantastic. I noticed the ages of your three daughters. Mine three are all grown but are spaced exactly like yours--now they are 30, 26 and 23. Time goes by very, very fast.

Good luck on your goal of getting to pre-college weight. That has been so many years and pounds back for me it's hard to remember!

[This message edited by meaniemouse at 8:21 AM, July 11th (Thursday)]

Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James

Posts: 2242 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Midwest
♀ 21101
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Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is AWESOME !!!!
You should be proud!!!

I need to start couch to 5k, but have been focusing on loosing some weight first, with my arthritis issues I didn't want to damage joints with all the extra weight. I have hit my goal to start, just got to get up and moving. I see my Dr next week, and he is going to get on me because I haven't started exercising regularly yet too.
(he is so damn cute, I always feel bad whe he gets on me...)

Enought about me, Great Job TCD...You are an inspiration.

Him: FWS
Kids: 16 & 18
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

Posts: 11550 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
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Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((TCD)))Sending you hugs and strength.

What you have accomplished is amazing! Congrats!!!

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Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You go girl!!

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats TCD - continued success!!

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Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, TCD. Such an inspiration! Well done.

You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
― The Doctor

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♀ 36134
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Default  Posted: 4:21 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations on meeting this milestone.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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