When my X married OW.. (2 weeks after being final) I was devastated. Someone once told me I should be proud he married quickly. It means he likes being married, if our marriage was so horrible, why would he jump into it so quickly?
DD4 when she was about 12-13 asked me why I married him, I told her because I loved him. She then asked him why he married me.. because he "thought he loved me". Then she asked why did he marry OW, his answer "because it was weird living with her and not being married."
Makes perfect sense in his world.
10 years later, he is still married to OW, and I am not married. Gee, I wonder who thought the marriage was horrible and who didn't?
I'm taking my time, figuring out my next change of life..(empty nest) and exactly what that means to MY Life...
Hugs, because it stings... but know that when you are healed it won't make a difference what he is wearing. YOU will be fabulously healthy and he will still be broken.