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Mass "winking" ....the new drunk texting! lol

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 She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 3:28 AM on Friday, July 12th, 2013

Okay....so I'm not drunk...but I've had a couple of glasses of wine and made the mistake of going onto the dating site and doing a "search"... and apparently the beer goggles work through the computer screen cause I got wink happy!!

Time for bed obviously.... and I KNOW I will regret this tomorrow!!!!

Why can't my computer lock up when I get out the moscato??

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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OnceInALifetime ( member #26023) posted at 3:48 AM on Friday, July 12th, 2013

Oh, oops...

BH, now divorced

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 She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 3:56 AM on Friday, July 12th, 2013

Yeah...oops... There's nothing wrong with a "little" cheap winking is there?? Oh well...maybe I can boost a few egos at the very least....

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 5:11 AM on Friday, July 12th, 2013

Does anyone ever respond to winks? I never did when I got them so I never used them.

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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OnceInALifetime ( member #26023) posted at 5:23 AM on Friday, July 12th, 2013

I responded to some winks. Met some nice women that way.

But sometimes I think I was a victim of wink blasting, the equivalent of men sending out 50 brainless messages in a single hour. These would arrive at 3 in the morning, and if I responded, I never heard back, cause you know, everyone looks pretty fine at 3am when your drunk!

BH, now divorced

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 She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 11:28 AM on Friday, July 12th, 2013

I actually met triathlon dad by winking at him randomly....and he emailed me in response....so I guess you can meet people that way!

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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cmego ( member #30346) posted at 1:26 PM on Friday, July 12th, 2013

I've responded to a few, but I now have in my profile that I don't really understand "winking" and I prefer for them to email me.

I have never winked at a guy. If I'm interested, I send him a short, but cute, email.

me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced

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lostmommy ( member #33440) posted at 6:39 PM on Friday, July 12th, 2013

I ignored the winks unless it was followed up by a message (and to be honest ignored my fair share of those as well).

Don't worry, Shelly! At least you weren't texting them!

Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

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 She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 6:47 PM on Friday, July 12th, 2013

I think I'm safe.... most of the ones I winked at were far enough out of town that I don't think I need to worry about contact...

Oh well.... my computer needs a breathalyzer...

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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better4me ( member #30341) posted at 8:12 PM on Friday, July 12th, 2013

Oh well.... my computer needs a breathalyzer...

or an ankle bracelet!!

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!

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UndecidedinMA ( member #33732) posted at 8:38 PM on Friday, July 12th, 2013

As long as it is safe winking!

ME - BSO
Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
DDAY 09/14/11 ONS w/DBCxWOW with 4 mos EA
Solidly in R

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 She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 8:39 PM on Friday, July 12th, 2013

or an ankle bracelet

This might be better so it can ZAP me if I try to do anything rash or stupid!

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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torn2bits ( member #28376) posted at 3:17 PM on Sunday, July 14th, 2013

I never responded to winks and when I didn't respond after a number of days, some sent email after winking.

I have emailed on one of my realxing nites after a few. It was still ok in the morning!

Me: 45/WH (SA): 49
M: 26 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce halted

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