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She11ybeanz posted 7/11/2013 21:28 PM

Okay....so I'm not drunk...but I've had a couple of glasses of wine and made the mistake of going onto the dating site and doing a "search"... and apparently the beer goggles work through the computer screen cause I got wink happy!!

Time for bed obviously.... and I KNOW I will regret this tomorrow!!!!

Why can't my computer lock up when I get out the moscato??

OnceInALifetime posted 7/11/2013 21:48 PM

Oh, oops...

She11ybeanz posted 7/11/2013 21:56 PM

Yeah...oops... There's nothing wrong with a "little" cheap winking is there?? Oh well...maybe I can boost a few egos at the very least....

little turtle posted 7/11/2013 23:11 PM

Does anyone ever respond to winks? I never did when I got them so I never used them.

OnceInALifetime posted 7/11/2013 23:23 PM

I responded to some winks. Met some nice women that way.

But sometimes I think I was a victim of wink blasting, the equivalent of men sending out 50 brainless messages in a single hour. These would arrive at 3 in the morning, and if I responded, I never heard back, cause you know, everyone looks pretty fine at 3am when your drunk!

She11ybeanz posted 7/12/2013 05:28 AM

I actually met triathlon dad by winking at him randomly....and he emailed me in response....so I guess you can meet people that way!

cmego posted 7/12/2013 07:26 AM

I've responded to a few, but I now have in my profile that I don't really understand "winking" and I prefer for them to email me.

I have never winked at a guy. If I'm interested, I send him a short, but cute, email.

lostmommy posted 7/12/2013 12:39 PM

I ignored the winks unless it was followed up by a message (and to be honest ignored my fair share of those as well).

Don't worry, Shelly! At least you weren't texting them!

She11ybeanz posted 7/12/2013 12:47 PM

I think I'm safe.... most of the ones I winked at were far enough out of town that I don't think I need to worry about contact...

Oh well.... my computer needs a breathalyzer...

better4me posted 7/12/2013 14:12 PM

Oh well.... my computer needs a breathalyzer...

or an ankle bracelet!!

UndecidedinMA posted 7/12/2013 14:38 PM

As long as it is safe winking!

She11ybeanz posted 7/12/2013 14:39 PM

or an ankle bracelet

This might be better so it can ZAP me if I try to do anything rash or stupid!

torn2bits posted 7/14/2013 09:17 AM

I never responded to winks and when I didn't respond after a number of days, some sent email after winking.

I have emailed on one of my realxing nites after a few. It was still ok in the morning!