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ThoughtIKnewYa
♀ 18449
Member # 18449 |  Posted: 10:21 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013 |     |
If you had cancer and were in the hospital, on a ventilator, on morphine, and a former employee (who also took you to the hospital, since no family was around, yet) snapped a pic of you and started sending it to your former bosses and employees???
I'm still stunned by this. I hope this post made sense.
ETA: I was under the impression she took him to the hospital, but he went in an ambulance. She went to the hospital and violated him like that. Am I wrong to be LIVID for him??? [This message edited by ThoughtIKnewYa at 10:31 PM, July 11th (Thursday)]
Posts: 11814 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
painpaingoaway
♀ 27196
Member # 27196 |  Posted: 10:30 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013 | |
That's horrible. 
me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 34 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
Posts: 7187 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South |
ThoughtIKnewYa
♀ 18449
Member # 18449 | | Posted: 10:41 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013 | |
I don't really think this is 'it' for him. He has Hodgkins and has had a rough go with the treatments. He has fluid in his lungs and thoracic cavity and that's why the ventilator and morphine- they're draining litres of fluid out of him, then planning some radiation on a tumor behind his heart. So, I'm pretty sure he'll be awake in a couple of days. Then what?? He doesn't know she did this and is showing EVERYONE and telling them that he's a goner. 
WHO DOES THAT??? I've been in rooms with people dying of cancer and no one was snapping pictures. It's actually a traumatic experience for those with hearts and souls.
Posts: 11814 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 11:09 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013 | |
WTH?????
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28180 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
little turtle
♀ 15584
Member # 15584 | | Posted: 11:40 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013 | |
That's awful.
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Posts: 4281 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan |
Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239 | | Posted: 6:24 AM, July 12th (Friday), 2013 | |
Do you know her well enough to feel comfortable asking her to take the picture down? Yes, damage had been done, but maybe it can be mitigated.
I hope she's just a clueless twit and not malicious.
May your 2015 be more FUCK YEAH! than fuck this
Posts: 20976 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY |
metamorphisis
♀ 12041
Member # 12041 | | Posted: 7:15 AM, July 12th (Friday), 2013 | |
That is vile. 
“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin
Posts: 46562 | Registered: Sep 2006 |
Undefinabl3
♀ 36883
Member # 36883 | | Posted: 7:44 AM, July 12th (Friday), 2013 | |
OMG....Personally, I would be emailing everyone concerning this that this picture was not taken with consent, that she is not a doctor or a nurse to validate the 'goner' aspect of the sitation, and that his privacy is what needs to be upheld, and a proper person will update in the future.
I can not believe some people!
Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.
Posts: 1906 | Registered: Sep 2012 |
CrappyLife
♂ 37630
Member # 37630 | | Posted: 7:48 AM, July 12th (Friday), 2013 | |
No. It does not make sense to me!!
I do not get it. Unbelievable. Why would someone do that? Motive? [This message edited by CrappyLife at 7:48 AM, July 12th (Friday)]
BBF-turned-BH: 28 (Me)
WGF-turned-WW: 28 (EmotionalFool)
POS1: a 'friend'? WW believed it was my 'best friend'!
POS2: her senior at work!
Together - 6 years
Married - 1.5 years
D-Day- 15/10/12
Don't know where we are headed..
Posts: 276 | Registered: Nov 2012 |
jrc1963
♀ 26531
Member # 26531 | | Posted: 8:32 AM, July 12th (Friday), 2013 | |
WTF???? I would be beyond livid for him...
What a complete violation!
Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 25017 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 | | Posted: 9:27 AM, July 12th (Friday), 2013 | |
Where is this man's family?
I would try politely to tell the violator that this is inappropriate at best. If that didn't work... I would notify his family when they came to town or him when he woke up.
That is unbelievable.
Good luck,
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 6024 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554 | | Posted: 12:33 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013 | |
I would feel violated beyond words.
Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Posts: 10442 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA |
ThoughtIKnewYa
♀ 18449
Member # 18449 | | Posted: 12:56 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013 | |
I asked H how his company would handle a male employee taking pics of an unconscious female and showing them around... Of course, this is another one of those grey areas- he's her former boss (only because he's sick) and it took place outside of work.
As far as telling him- oh, hell yeah, he's going to know as soon as he regains consciousness!
His mom has been staying with him and may have been around, but she may have just stepped out of the room for a minute. His sister was on the way, but not in town, yet. I'm not sure that they know this happened.
Gah, I HOPE she didn't put it on a social network! She sent it to the District Manager and shoved in in my H's face at work and was showing to everyone else. She was told to stop by the DM, but the damage is done.
I don't get to know H's employees much. It just keeps things cleaner for him, so I don't know her and don't care to know her. She's a boundary bulldozer (obviously), so I set my boundary WAAAAAAAY out there and it is "You will not meet me and screw with my life, in any way." She keeps asking H when I'm coming in to 'hang out'. Not. Gonna. Happen.
Posts: 11814 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
ThoughtIKnewYa
♀ 18449
Member # 18449 | | Posted: 5:08 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013 | |
Motive??
Attention?? Wanting to feel 'in the know'??
Posts: 11814 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
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