HR departments that require signed acknowledgements that the anti fraternization rules are known and understood still have employees that date and cheat with each other. Why would a cheater who ignores a vow to a spouse before God even care what HR requires?
The work place has always been the hot bed of cheating. But, with the everything goes, do what feels good generation, boundaries are nearly non existent. Now the non cheating, strong boundary people are considered freaks or are being controlled by a non trusting spouse. How many men are taunted by a future OW that a refusal to have an innocent lunch means the H is being controlled by an suspicious wife?
It does not matter where you work, even in a church. Infidelity is only a yes away.
Married 30+ years
2 young adult children
OW single 20 years younger
Together trying to R
I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.