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User Topic: Separated from family for a month. 1 week down
SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This post isn't going anywhere profound, probably belongs in off-topic, but I thought I would put it here.

So we moved the family up to Seattle last week from Phoenix. I had to fly back to Phoenix for a month to finish up work, so I am living with a buddy.

Going into the separation I thought I would have more anxiety, but surprisingly there isn't any. I am not sure if it's because she has gained trust back through her actions, or if I have let go of trying to control outcomes. Probably a mixture of the two.

Anyway, R is going well, even with the separation. Lots of good calls in the A.M. and evening, lots of texts and emails. I sure do miss her and the kids though. I'll see if a little bit of golf helps tomorrow.

Anyway, the road through reconciliation is crappy ride. But sometimes it can lead you to a great place.


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


Posts: 1309 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Everett
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Separation is awful. May the time speed by for you.

Bottle some sunshine while you're still in Phoenix for use after you finalize your move....


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DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10758 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
1Faith
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Happy  Posted: 4:40 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderboy

So happy to hear things are going well in your journey toward reconciliation. Great news.

I agree, the road is hard and bumpy but it can be worth it.

Thanks for sharing your positive news.


"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." - Maya Angelou

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad to hear that R is going well. I hope the next 3 weeks fly by for you.

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SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 5:34 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, one week down...just three more to go. I am excited to get back up to the family!


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


Posts: 1309 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Everett
Skan
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Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hopefully the time will fly by!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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SandAway
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Separations can be tough but there are ways to make it go smooth as you two have found out.

Happy for you both!

And yes, golf helps!


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M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


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still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WB,

Hopefully your time will pass quickly. Golf has a way of taking your mind off your troubles, doesn't it?

WELCOME TO SEATTLE!! Glad you made it. Too bad you are going to be gone while we are in this "heat wave"


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Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

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still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry. Double post. I don't even know how that happens!!

[This message edited by still2suspicious at 3:27 PM, July 14th (Sunday)]


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