This post isn't going anywhere profound, probably belongs in off-topic, but I thought I would put it here.
So we moved the family up to Seattle last week from Phoenix. I had to fly back to Phoenix for a month to finish up work, so I am living with a buddy.
Going into the separation I thought I would have more anxiety, but surprisingly there isn't any. I am not sure if it's because she has gained trust back through her actions, or if I have let go of trying to control outcomes. Probably a mixture of the two.
Anyway, R is going well, even with the separation. Lots of good calls in the A.M. and evening, lots of texts and emails. I sure do miss her and the kids though. I'll see if a little bit of golf helps tomorrow.
Anyway, the road through reconciliation is crappy ride. But sometimes it can lead you to a great place.