wtf?? How insane does your life have to get that you want to polygraph your freaking HUSBAND. ~ OldCow18
I think that if you aren't ready for new vows that you should tell her.
My wh was also having an A during our anniversary, it's a sore subject for me. I warned him not to even mention the words. He didn't listen the firs 4 years, and it did not end well. This year he finally listened. He's a slow learner.
It's hard to make a decision when you're too tired to hold on and too in love to let go. ~ unknown