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User Topic: The best words I ever heard
♀ 33732
Member # 33732
Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I miss you & I am lonely

Do to work had to be away from FWSO, when he said that tonight I almost did the happy dance. I should not take pleasure in his pain(or should I) but darn it felt great!!

He has called me 5 times in the last 8 hours. So with all the drama today I am loving R right now.

Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
DDAY 09/14/11 ONS w/DBCxWOW with 4 mos EA
Solidly in R

Posts: 1005 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: MA
♀ 38207
Member # 38207
Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My H was always good about saying he missed me and was lonely. I was terrible at reciprocating. It wasn't that I truly didn't miss him or feel lonely, but I didn't want to appear needy or weak. Since his A's I've made a more concerted effort to let him know that I miss him while he is away. I never dreamed he would be happy to hear that, but he is. It doesn't make me appear needy or weak to him, it makes him feel loved, wanted and appreciated. I'm so glad I learned that lesson and that you are getting the validation you need also.

Posts: 1595 | Registered: Jan 2013
♀ 36576
Member # 36576
Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're not taking pleasure in his pain. You're happy about an emotional connection that you've regained.

wtf?? How insane does your life have to get that you want to polygraph your freaking HUSBAND. ~ OldCow18

It's hard to make a decision when you're too tired to hold on and too in love to let go. ~ unknown

Posts: 178 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: midwest
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