So on Tuesday my F called me on his way to work and said " I was calling to see if you were down...OK". I said I was fine and hadn't called him since the previous night because I was very tired. He said that was fine and then later in the day he texted me and told me he had to leave work to go downtown for a conference.
I immediately became paranoid because OW attends college downtown and because when he called me earlier I swore I heard him say the word "down" before he corrected himself and said he was checking to see if I was ok.
I told him I was worried so he sent me pictures and video of the event and it's monitors so that I could see he was there at the exact minute he sent the videos.
I tried to call him but it wouldn't go through and he sent me a screenshot of where he had tried to call me several times but it said network issue. We have the same phone and provider so I believe he was actually calling me.
So I believe he was at the conference when he said he was, because I have proof of it but still I am losing sleep over the possibility of him having met up with her downtown.
He voluntarily told me he was going downtown knowing I might be freaked out.
He took video of the conference that had date timestamp images on the monitors.
He was where he said he would be.
I don't have any solid proof that he met her or has spoken with her at all since NC started in May. I only have him possibly saying " I was checking to see if you were down...OK."
Down could have been downtown. Does that mean he was checking to see if she was already somewhere though. This was many hours before he attended the conference.
Does this sound like paranoia or intuition? Should I just believe him?
[This message edited by anonymous823 at 11:36 AM, July 13th (Saturday)]