Topic: The End
Member # 30217
| Posted: 2:17 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
I wanted to come on here and let you all know that my father lost his battle with cancer/MRSA on Tuesday afternoon. He died at 3:45.
But, he died in his own home, surrounded by his family. We all had our hands holding him as he went. It was peaceful, calm, and a blessing that he is no longer suffering. We were able to fulfill his wishes and one of the last things he told me was that I was "doing a good job". High praise from a man of few words but a man of much love.
My heart is heavy, but my soul is light because I know he is no longer in pain, and we let him go freely, with no loose ends. I even got to fix him a shrimp dinner for the last meal he ate (I didn't know it would be his last at the time).
The world is a poorer place without the him, but he is at peace and no longer suffering. For that, I am grateful.
I'll be back later. I just wanted my SI peeps to know he had passed, and passed as he wished. Love to you all.
Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...
God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
Posts: 3168 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Colorado
Member # 19333
| Posted: 2:43 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
My deepest sympathy. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
You can't change the wind, but you can adjust your sails.
Posts: 9561 | Registered: Apr 2008 | From: Birthplace of America's Music
Member # 18449
| Posted: 3:26 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Posts: 11792 | Registered: Mar 2008
Member # 16024
| Posted: 5:29 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
I'm so sorry for your family's loss.
Take up your space (and do it well).
"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."
Posts: 38996 | Registered: Sep 2007
Member # 99
| Posted: 6:23 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
I am so very sorry, exhausted. My thoughts, prayers, and hugs are with you and your family.
"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies
Posts: 2499 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
Member # 24261
| Posted: 6:34 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
I'm so sorry for your loss.
DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??
I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)
Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!
Posts: 4977 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
Member # 36445
| Posted: 6:37 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
I'm sorry ((exhausted lady))
"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.
Posts: 1409 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 36134
| Posted: 6:51 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
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Posts: 5746 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Member # 33226
| Posted: 8:13 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
((((exhausted lady and family)))) So sorry for your loss.
You can call me NIK
"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
Posts: 26546 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 26531
| Posted: 8:32 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
I'm very sorry for your loss. I'm glad your father is in peace now.
Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
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Posts: 24755 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Member # 21964
| Posted: 8:58 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
"I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning how to sail my ship." - Louisa May Alcott
Posts: 3208 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
Member # 27148
| Posted: 9:10 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.
Posts: 2821 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 31528
| Posted: 9:37 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Posts: 36820 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 18179
| Posted: 10:02 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
(((exhausted lady & family)))
I'm so sorry for your loss. What a gift and testimony to your dad that you were all with him at the end. I sure that helped give him a sense of peace.
Relief from suffering is a blessing indeed, however it is not easy to say the final goodbye I know.
You can't fill a cup with no bottom.
Posts: 3905 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together
Member # 34086
| Posted: 10:04 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
My heartfelt condolences.
Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
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Posts: 4137 | Registered: Dec 2011
Member # 20150
| Posted: 10:23 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
(((exhausted lady))) Lucky man to have everyone with him at home in the end.
Big hugs. I know it is a relief but it leaves a big hole in your world when they move on from here.
He will always be with you though.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 17811 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Member # 1558
| Posted: 10:56 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
((( el )))
I wish peace for you and your family.
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Posts: 14040 | Registered: Jun 2003 | From: Middle-of-Diddly, TX
Member # 24518
| Posted: 12:17 PM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
(((el))) keeping you in my thoughts. so sorry for your loss.
Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave
Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect
Posts: 12187 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
|Sad in AZ|
Member # 24239
| Posted: 1:27 PM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
I'm so sorry EL; I'm glad that you are celebrating his life, though. (((((exhausted lady)))))
Hallelujah! Holy shit! Where's the tylenol?
Posts: 20566 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
Member # 16590
| Posted: 1:28 PM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013|
I'm so very sorry for your loss, but I understand the peace that comes from knowing that your loved one is no longer suffering.
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert
Posts: 3260 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
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