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User Topic: so now what
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Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today the kids wanted to go to the farmers market in the town where I work. We stopped there two weeks ago on our way to pick blueberries at a clients house. Pretty awesome farmers market. Its their first year so I can imagine what it will be like in 5 yrs.

Anyway, we were in line for an item when I see this client. I was going to say hello to her. It was absolutely obvious she was trying not to see me. Even when I called to her bc she forgot her item at the counter after paying for it she tried not to aknowledge me.

This is not something I would expect from that person

I then went through the whole what did I do to that person? Did I say something wrong? I cant think of anything

Another person I will smile at behind a well built wall.

Time to be my own bff.

Posts: 9309 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: NJ
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Default  Posted: 12:28 AM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"

Posts: 10020 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
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Default  Posted: 7:56 AM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YOU cannot control how others act and behave, all you can do is be the best you that you are.
If they can't deal, well then their loss.

Him: FWS
Kids: 16 & 18
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 10573 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
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Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would be careful to not assume that you did or said something wrong. You just can't know her motivations or her state of mind at the time you saw her.

You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown

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