Awesome response, struggling! I can feel your relief. I'm so glad you decided to talk to him about it too. So often it seems that we have a suspicion and instead of communicating with our spouse, we go into detective mode. Itís easy to do when you donít know if you can trust R and donít want to face another D-Day or False R. However, communication is the key for any healthy marriage and sometimes just TALKING can help your marriage immensely!.
The urge to check up on him will lessen in time, especially with his support. His answer is so reassuring. People who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. Seems like he has nothing to hide.