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eyenight posted 7/14/2013 21:18 PM

i ran into Army today. I went to this awesome local coffee shop today, just to chill out and needed time to regroup and do my artistic things, so was at the sitter.
He walked in and came over to me. Saying Hi navy I think I jumped about 3 feet cause it scared me. While he asked if he could sit with me. I said sure.
I was polite and gave him a hug. We talked for a long time catching up. He laughed a lot I did to.
He's on the road to divorce. He told me I was right. She was someone different before I married her, then changed back to who she really is after we got married. They sent the kids to the grandparents to work on their marriage but he said he is done.
I told him about the guy Im dating and how I am really happy.
Then he asked me where he was. I said on his yearly summer camping trip with the guys.
I told army I had to go as I was meeting friends for sunday drinks at this bar.
He gave me a hug and an extra squeeze and a kiss on the cheek then said I should of never let you go.
I ignored him and said pulled away and left.
He came into the 5 min later.
omg.
He had a few drinks and bought mine. I got to go smoke he comes with and tells me.
He is still crazy about me. made a huge mistake. He wants to be back with me, he was confused as to what he wanted the wife talked a good game but it isnt what he wants. He still knows that he had fun with me and he fell in love with me and was a coward.
I told him to bad.

persevere posted 7/14/2013 21:27 PM

You handled it well - no moving backward - forward motion only. He is in the "grass is always greener" mode. If he were to have you back suddenly other pastures would look greener yet again....

eyenight posted 7/14/2013 21:48 PM

thats what i thought. its the I moved on and i am happy, without him while hes like fuck I should of stayed
this girl i broke up with is happy maybe i should try to get some of that happiness.
* I was only friendly toward him. nothing more.