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User Topic: Missing the person walking my path with me
tabitha95
♀ 22033
Member # 22033
Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm having stress at work. My director is retiring and there is a big shake up. She has been trying to alleviate everyone's minds, but after talking to her, I feel a bit worse.

I just want to be able to talk to someone who understands this situation. EX and I always knew everything about what was going on in each other's jobs. SO, which I think is now XSO again, has never really understood. He will listen to me, but doesn't get it. The fact that he's never worked in a similar environment, like EX does, didn't help.

I just wanted to pick up the phone and have someone understand and let me "talk through" the concerns I have.

I also have to get a D&C soon (I have an IUD and it moved after insertion, which is fine, but now that it's time to remove it, it has to be done under surgery). I have been putting it off, because I have no one to go with me and comfort me and pick me up.

I'm feeling sad today

[This message edited by tabitha95 at 1:37 PM, July 15th (Monday)]


BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3250 | Registered: Dec 2008
better4me
♀ 30341
Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((tabitha95)))

I understand. I feel this way sometimes too. Good thing it always passes, eventually.


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3235 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((tabitha))))


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 26122 | Registered: Aug 2011
Arais
♀ 33628
Member # 33628
Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, this is sad and times like these echo the loss of that person who knew you well enough to understand without a word.

(((((tabitha95)))))


EA 18 years ago - found out and ?NC
LTA - 2005-2011 with same woman
DD 2011

Posts: 346 | Registered: Oct 2011
foreverempty
♂ 34426
Member # 34426
Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Right there with you with those feelings

(((((Tabitha)))))


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 645 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
tabitha95
♀ 22033
Member # 22033
Default  Posted: 12:35 AM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I ended up calling ex. I don't want to have to rely on him emotionally, but I really needed to talk to someone. I regret calling him. Because of co-parenting, we communicate a lot, but it made me feel worse that he is still the only person I can talk to. I'm upset about work, I'm upset about my personal life. Only a few more weeks until my psychiatrist appt.

[This message edited by tabitha95 at 12:38 AM, July 16th (Tuesday)]


BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3250 | Registered: Dec 2008
Topic Posts: 6

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