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Facebook stalked her, now I can't get it out of my head

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 inshockandhurt (original poster member #38789) posted at 1:44 AM on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013

So I recently looked at the whores facebook page and I saw her cutesy fing picture with her new boyfriend, who she started dating less than a month after my husband stopped talking to her. Anyway, I stupidly tortured myself by reading the comments on this picture, everyone congratulating her on how happy she looks, and her mother saying how nice this new guy is and how happy she is with him. I saw red and it wrecked me for several days. I am so angry that she is happy! How dare she be happy? She tried to ruin my life and now she gets to be happy? Is karma on a fucking vacation or something?

Me: 36 BS
Him:38 FWH
Dday 8 years ago
2 sons 1 daughter
Reconciled

Forgiveness means understanding, acceptance, and giving up on looking back.

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musiclovingmom ( member #38207) posted at 1:51 AM on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013

Totally know how you feel. 2 weeks after my H ended his A with the last OW she was posting pics of her and new bf and talking about how in love she was and how perfect they were for each other.

They lasted 3 months. She's had at least 2 others since him and is currently single and has several active online dating accounts (that seem to be generating very little interest). She is jobless and single. She is headed back to school in the fall to get the degree I've had for almost a decade. Her posts still seem happy, but I know better. Her facade will come crashing down someday and everyone will know what you have known for years. She is a miserable, broken human.

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 inshockandhurt (original poster member #38789) posted at 2:06 AM on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013

I sure hope so because for some reason the fact that she is happy is just really upsetting. I know I need to let her go and just not care, but I want her life destroyed. I have been so tempted out her to her family and friends but I haven't done it. I wish I could.

Me: 36 BS
Him:38 FWH
Dday 8 years ago
2 sons 1 daughter
Reconciled

Forgiveness means understanding, acceptance, and giving up on looking back.

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