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When is my Antiversary?

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 SecondHelping (original poster member #36796) posted at 2:25 AM on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013

I read about us having Antiversaries, but I don't completely understand when it is?

Is it the subsequent years after D-Day? Specific days of the A? The start of the A? ????

For me it was:

20 Aug - Kissing and hand holding

22 aug - Blow Job

28 Aug - Sex

2 Oct - Suspected but lied to

3 Oct - Confirmed with truth

Which one is my Antiversary or are they all Antiversaries?

D-Day 1: Feb 1990
D-Day 2: 3 Sep 2012 (3 month EA/2 week PA)
BS 49, fWW 43 (Amibroken)
OP- Police Chief (Age 37)
M 25 Yrs, 3 Kids (17, 14, 11)
I initated the relationship at the Railway Tavern, she tried to end it at Scrap Tavern

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ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 2:54 AM on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013

I think of an antiversary as a specific day once a year that causes you to remember something significant.. You wouldn't celebrate it, hence the "anti." I have my wedding date coming up in August, and then D-day in September, and I will consider both of those antiversaries..

I went through our "sexiversary" (the date we first had sex 12 years ago) in February.. That was definitely an "antiversary" for me..

I think any of those you mentioned would qualify..

Hugs..

xBW~ 40
Two DS~ 15 and 11

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WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 2:41 PM on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013

Many people feel that the 'discovery day (Dday) is the antiversary. The day you found out - or confronted - or whatever.

For me, it is the day he was with the prostitute. I don't even remember the day I found her picture on his computer - I just remember March 9 every year. On that date, I was home with the kids, and he was away - supposedly working - and in a motel room with a whore, getting oral sex.

That is my antiversary.

I think it might be whatever has had the greatest impact on you.

HUGS

"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt

I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:43 PM on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013

The Anti for me is my Dday. I actually celebrate that Biatch now.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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