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User Topic: When is my Antiversary?
♂ 36796
Member # 36796
Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I read about us having Antiversaries, but I don't completely understand when it is?

Is it the subsequent years after D-Day? Specific days of the A? The start of the A? ????

For me it was:
20 Aug - Kissing and hand holding
22 aug - Blow Job
28 Aug - Sex
2 Oct - Suspected but lied to
3 Oct - Confirmed with truth

Which one is my Antiversary or are they all Antiversaries?

D-Day 1: Feb 1990
D-Day 2: 3 Sep 2012 (3 month EA/2 week PA)
BS 49, fWW 43 (Amibroken)
OP- Police Chief (Age 37)
M 25 Yrs, 3 Kids (17, 14, 11)
I initated the relationship at the Railway Tavern, she tried to end it at Scrap Tavern

Posts: 568 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Delmarva
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Member # 38377
Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think of an antiversary as a specific day once a year that causes you to remember something significant.. You wouldn't celebrate it, hence the "anti." I have my wedding date coming up in August, and then D-day in September, and I will consider both of those antiversaries..

I went through our "sexiversary" (the date we first had sex 12 years ago) in February.. That was definitely an "antiversary" for me..

I think any of those you mentioned would qualify..


xBW~ 37
Two DS~ 9 and 13

Posts: 3120 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
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Member # 35417
Default  Posted: 8:41 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Many people feel that the 'discovery day (Dday) is the antiversary. The day you found out - or confronted - or whatever.

For me, it is the day he was with the prostitute. I don't even remember the day I found her picture on his computer - I just remember March 9 every year. On that date, I was home with the kids, and he was away - supposedly working - and in a motel room with a whore, getting oral sex.

That is my antiversary.

I think it might be whatever has had the greatest impact on you.


"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt

I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy

Posts: 4609 | Registered: Apr 2012
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Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Anti for me is my Dday. I actually celebrate that Biatch now.

Him: FWS
Kids: 18 & 20
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

Posts: 13423 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
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