Its been a little over 2 weeks since DDay #2.
STBXWH insists that since he is asking for the D, he will file. No idea when that is going to happen.
I've decided I can't just sit on my hands anymore. I've given myself time to digest what happened and now I need some legal advice on what I should and shouldn't be doing.
STBXWH seems to think that all it takes is just clicking his heels and poof! I will be gone and he can go play house with OW.
My major concerns are our marital home, custody, support, health insurance and keeping OW away from my kids. He has already had her over at the marital home more times than I can count. (Not when the children have been with him.) Since, I moved out with the kids, I don't know what my legal rights are to keep her out of there. I would hope there is atleast something I can do to keep her out of the house when my children are there. My name is on the mortgage. STBXWH insists that they won't meet her for "quite some time, if they work out." He claims that he doesn't want to upset them. Seriously?? Because cheating on their mother and being moved hasn't upset them?
Sorry. That verred right off track. Anyway, its only a 30 minute consultation but I'm hoping it gives me some direction and peace of mind.
DDay #1 Tried R
DDAY #2 Divorcing
Burn everything love then burn the ashes.