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rumorhasit posted 7/16/2013 10:27 AM

I'm not sure how to feel about leaving my 20s. I had more stupid things to do! 30 just seems so... serious.

There are certainly many things I am no longer going to put up with in my 30s. I'm too old for that shit.

That being said, X is picking up DS in an hour (its his usual visitation, I could keep DS as it's my bday but I'd actually like some alone time.)

I'm taking bets on whether or not he will remember it's my birthday! Any takers?

lostmommy posted 7/16/2013 10:32 AM

Happy Birthday! (((hugs)))

My XH wished me a happy birthday the first year that he left (it's hard to forget mine - it's Christmas Day). This past year he didn't. I don't know which I preferred lol. On the one hand as the mother of his child, it's nice to be acknowledged on my special day. On the other as he's a fuckwad, it's almost an insult for him to wish me a happy day.

rumorhasit posted 7/16/2013 11:52 AM

Yeah, I'm not sure which I would prefer. He picked him up and didn't say anything other than some petty reason why DD wasnt with him. Idiot.

Pass posted 7/16/2013 11:58 AM

Happy day, rumorhasit! 30 is hardly bad at all, and you still have plenty of time to be stupid!

The Princess had the boys give me a nice card from her on Fathers' Day, and it pissed me off. If she hadn't, it might have pissed me off at least as much.

In a lot of areas, they really can't win with us - and that's exactly what they deserve.

dmari posted 7/16/2013 12:07 PM

HaPpY bIrThDaY!!!!! Enjoy your time to yourself!!

I'm with pass ~ stbx didn't acknowledge my birthday or mothers day but eh ... whatev's. "...they really can't win with us - and that's exactly what they deserve.

Mommato4 posted 7/16/2013 12:07 PM

Happy Birthday rumor!

Enjoy your day!

PS: I get what you're feeling. My birthday is Saturday and I'm turning 40. A whole new decade to start.

Cancers unite!

nowiknow23 posted 7/16/2013 13:07 PM

Happy Birthday!!! From a personal perspective, I loved my 30s. Still so young, high energy and enthusiasm levels, and it seemed like people took me more seriously. It's all good.

ButterflyGirl posted 7/16/2013 13:24 PM

Happy Birthday!!

Don't worry, the 30s haven't been too bad so far. Maybe when I'm 40 I will get more serious? But I doubt it

And yeah, whether he remembers or not, FTG..

Kajem posted 7/16/2013 13:36 PM

Happy Birthday,

30's were fun... 40's were where I felt I was coming into my own.. 50's well the jury is still out.

Enjoy your day..Do something special just for you.



jo2love posted 7/16/2013 14:08 PM

Happy Birthday!!!

curiouswiz posted 7/16/2013 14:10 PM

Happy Birthday!!! Do something really nice for yourself! Thirty is so young! I just hit 60 in June! Yay Cancer's! Yay US!

40's are nice! 50's even better! Take care and the 60's might be okay too! I'm wishing you a beautiful day rumor!

Vulcanized posted 7/16/2013 14:40 PM

Happy milestone!!!

Don't let a turd wreck your special day.

BrighterFuture posted 7/17/2013 02:53 AM

Happy birthday!!! I'll be 30 in September. My baby is due in September too. I'm overwhelmed but I'll take it as it comes. Enjoy your day!!!

Coraline posted 7/17/2013 03:34 AM

Happy birthday!

SBB posted 7/17/2013 08:43 AM

Happy Birthday! 30 is so young!

I always think of my 80 year old self kicking my arse for calling myself old or not seeing how beautiful and astonishingly young and vibrant I am at 38.

Everyone should channel their inner 80 year old selves.

npain posted 7/17/2013 15:09 PM

Happy birthday!

gma56 posted 7/17/2013 15:13 PM


Hope you had some alone time and enjoyed your day !

JanetS posted 7/17/2013 15:27 PM

Happy Birthday Young One.

I'm 61 and (in my head) I'm still in my 30's at times. I get together with girlfriends regularly (think Sex and the City...without the sex LOL) and laugh and have a ball.

30's will be FANTASTIC...really!

tryingagain74 posted 7/17/2013 16:13 PM

Happy birthday! I liked my 30s better than my 20s. Welcome to what I think is the better decade!

soveryalone1 posted 7/17/2013 16:23 PM

Happy birthday, I kept making plenty of mistakes once I hit 30 :) hopefully your birthday goes better than mine did, I made the horrible mistake of calling my Xfiance , thinking she might tell me happy birthday, I had a few beers so first call went like this
" what do you want , I am watching TV with D" ( d is an old friend of mine who she began a EA with and after her and I were together 12 years, she began seeing him after 3 weeks apart from me) I don't recall the second or third calls, but the second to last call went like this, me " I think part of you might be angry that I left" her " I am ECSTATIC YOU LEFT ECSTATIC" last call and last time I will ever speak to her in my life " J if you call one more time you will hear D F_cking me".... so ye I didn't quite get a happy birthday haha
that last one scarred me, and I think I will remain scarred for a VERY long time, oh joy

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