oh my gosh YES! This is why I came here. I was asking ppl what to do with our marriage since last novemeber and everyone seemed to some how blame it on me or think they were so immune or what is wrong with us ??? I felt even worse. Liek I couldn't even ask for help since apparently no one was dealing with this.
In our church group I brought this up and multiple ppl kept assuming that i was somehow to blame. Well, they would say you better look at what YOU did to cause this.
I did NOTHING! I swear I did not. I posted in another thread that I have always met my husbands needs. the problem is his.
they would immediately say, well maybe you weren't giving him sex. NO. He got plenty of sex. They they alluded to the fact that I wasn't good in bed and thats why he went lookign then...like i wasn't kinky enough or sexy enough or etc..NO! I did meet his needs.
The reason my husband looked elsewhere is all his problems.
I only realized this when I came here. My husband has the problems not me. Also,