I swear to god, if anyone victim-blames in front of me ever again, they're going to end up needing dental surgery. What a heinous, disgusting pattern of behaviour to shift the blame to those who have been victimized.
I would say my take on this topic has really changed since being a part of it, and I try to ignore those people that just don't get it. But I get you, sometimes ignorant is so obvious it's hard to ignore.
This is one reason I have not told anyone,I sort of expect the "well you were a crappy husband" response.
I used to have this arrogant saying that once I accepted that most people were ignorant, I could live a happy life!
Idiots abound. Surround yourself with those who are supportive, uplifting, and positive. And strive to be that way for others!
It's also the only site I know of for the WS. My WBF and I were talking the other day about a subject he posted here, in the wayward forum. He was frustrated, feeling like the ones who answered, didn't get how wrong certain actions are. I suggested he respond with how he felt. When he did, again WSs responded with lame excuses. How sad!
I've found most people don't want to face the truth. It doesn't fit into their agenda.....UNTIL they are the victim.
Next time you hear an idiotic comment, I'd recommend calling them out on it. How else are things ever going to change?
