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roughroadahead posted 7/16/2013 14:29 PM

The first divorce pretrial has been scheduled for the morning of the 10th wedding anniversary.

FML.

tesla posted 7/16/2013 14:33 PM

((((roughroad)))

The day we had the "getting divorced" talk was my b-day.

The day D was finalized, his b-day.

Bitter-sweet, fitting, and shitty. All part of that shit-sandwich we have to choke down.

peridot posted 7/16/2013 14:48 PM

My divorce was granted the same day my parents got divorced.

lostmommy posted 7/16/2013 14:57 PM

((((roughroadahead)))) Our divorce was final the day before what would have been our 16th anniversary. Sometimes it's cleansing that way.

Snapdragon posted 7/16/2013 15:01 PM

Yep... on our 10th wedding anniversary we were in court and I was defending myself against his false domestic abuse claims.

It was so interesting to watch him on the stand lie about everything except his name and address.

nowiknow23 posted 7/16/2013 15:20 PM

((((rra))))

Mommato4 posted 7/16/2013 15:55 PM

((((rra))))

Mine was final just a few days after my birthday. Dday was my youngest's birthday turning 1.

Believe me it gets better. I'm on year 5 and it's not the first thing I think of around my birthday now or my son's birthday.

[This message edited by Mommato4 at 3:56 PM, July 16th (Tuesday)]

fraeuken posted 7/16/2013 16:17 PM

- My divorce was final on May 17, 2013.
- I got married on May 17, 1996.
- May 17, 2103 was a Friday, so was May 17, 1996.
- And, doing the math, my divorce date was the 17 year anniversary of our wedding date.

Think I should play lottery with the number 17?

solus sto posted 7/16/2013 16:26 PM

We share an anniversary, fraeuken.

I guess we should warn others not to make use of the date.

Kajem posted 7/16/2013 16:33 PM

(((((roughroadahead))))))


The day he moved the rest of his stuff out-my birthday. a Day after our final paperwork was sent to the court house. The day we were finalized was the same day as my parents divorce.

Divorce sucks.

fraeuken posted 7/16/2013 17:03 PM

Solus, we should! My BIL did marry on the same day as well, I am hoping it will last for him.

SBB posted 7/16/2013 17:16 PM

Final was about 2 mins into our 8th Wedding Anniversary. Also OWUglyIndian's Birthday.

I did something VERY memorable on that date this year. That is what I'll remember in the years to come.

jo2love posted 7/16/2013 17:31 PM

((((roughroad)))

roughroadahead posted 7/17/2013 22:31 PM

Reprieve! Waffle's L has a conflict, so it has been rescheduled. We're now looking at the end of August. Oddly, at kid exchange today Waffle told me it was good that it had turned out that way because he "preferred not" to have to deal with the D on "that day"

sunfish posted 7/17/2013 23:30 PM

My 1st D Day..."our" 20th wedding anniversary. I feel your pain.

wontdefineme posted 7/17/2013 23:44 PM

Don't blame God, it's clearly the devil trying to break us. If you haven't already noticed, but it seems like the weak spouse is used by forces to break the strong one, because being married to these losers didn't break us before the A's. We were always strong when they were weak, when they were broken, and we kept on loving them no matter what. I just hate it when we blame God for the bad things.

roughroadahead posted 7/18/2013 05:06 AM

wontdefineme: I don't actually blame god

It is a song lyric from Depeche Mode.

wontdefineme posted 7/19/2013 02:40 AM

And these cheaters suck the humor right out of our lives. I need to lighten up some. Sorry.

nomoreplease posted 7/19/2013 08:22 AM

A little bit of irony for my D:

I signed the petition on Good Friday.
The waiting period was over on July 4th (courts were closed so it wasn’t really final until the 5th, but close enough).

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