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User Topic: Done!
Ann124
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So at the hearing (me on the phone and ... here it comes now officially XWHwas there in person) He must have been scared or a wave of honesty hit him like a ton of bricks but while sworn in admitted to the debt that he started after D filing and claimed 100% of it (I think it was because he knew I might say something and he would be in contempt)

But all is finally Done ...

[This message edited by Ann124 at 4:33 PM, July 16th (Tuesday)]


Posts: 387 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Back Home ... And feeling Great!!
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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soveryweary
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Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ann124, I am so relieved and happy for you.


Divorced 1/3/14

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devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad the loan is on record, and I'm happy you are done. :) Congrats!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


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dmari
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Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phew ... that's a relief!! Keep on moving forward!


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

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SBB
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I vote scared.

Congrats!!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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chikastuff
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Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome news!!


Me- 32
Happily engaged and moving on

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Ann124
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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everyone! I felt a huge weight off my shoulders.

Here is the kicker: I need a certified copy of the decree as I went back to my maiden name ... Afterwards I called him about our DS22 and then said, "since you have all this loan money can you go back to the court house and pay for my certified copy that I need"
XWH "Oh sure no problem ... I'll do it first thing in the morning"

All I can do is shake my head!

[This message edited by Ann124 at 7:17 PM, July 16th (Tuesday)]


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peridot
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Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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