My husband has wandering eyes.
we went on a tour somewhere with our two year old daughter and one of his friends from work. My daughter was getting fussy cause she missed her nap and i decieded to take her to the car so she could sleep and cool off.
I forgot my phone so i went looking for it(with my daughter) and i couldnt find it, so i deceided to see if my husband picked it up. Well i was standing in back of the tour group waiting for the tour guide to finish what he was saying cause my husband was on the other side of the room.
he had not seen me walk in. I just watched him from afar and saw him just staring at this other female. He looked at her in ways i havent seen him look at me in along time. He kept leaning over to his friend and whispering and smiling and looking at her. I was heart broken. I walked over and asked for my phone and was like i know what your doing and he was like what. and i just left to the car again.
We haven't really talked about that or the fact he had an affair while deployed. He just wants to forget and think that's dealing with it. I am in individual counseling. I have my next appointment tomorrow.
My question is, is it normal to be heartbroken over this, wanting to ball up in a ball and cry for days? Or is it just me overreacting to him looking. Is it really normal for guys to look at females that way? or am i exaggerating a look because im still hurt from the affair?
sorry for any typos. Ima mess...