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If he's interested in me? I gave someone my number on Sunday night. Soooo not used to dating. Would he have called by now if he was interested? It's not going to kill me if he doesn't call but for future reference how long does it usually take?

Jeepers that would totally be a one by one thing.

Some would call before you made it home. Others would do the play it *cool* thing and wait 2 -3 days.. Others have to make sure Mother's is chained and securely gagged back up in the attic before they call...

Honestly tiredofit - I have no clue, just couldn't resist the wide berth left wide open for a "psycho" reference...

In my experience(s), if they asked for my number, they called within 48 hours.

[This message edited by Amazonia at 8:02 PM, July 16th (Tuesday)]

Ok so he texted me tonight.
Not sure how I feel about that instead of calling.
Am I just being old or is that ok?

Texting is normal.

Oh yes, very normal. I think when I said "call" I really meant "contact", because only one called the old fashioned way, and I put him to voicemail.

If you're not a texter or not comfortable texting, send back a short and friendly response but also state that you don't text much and would love to chat on the phone.