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 tiredofit (original poster member #26423) posted at 12:39 AM on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013

If he's interested in me? I gave someone my number on Sunday night. Soooo not used to dating. Would he have called by now if he was interested? It's not going to kill me if he doesn't call but for future reference how long does it usually take?

Me: BS45 him: stbxh 45
2 dd's 16 and 12
Multiple DDs 7/09 - 9/21/10 same mow co-worker
Last DD 9/21/10 found love notes on computer I'm done, I'm free!!

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Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 1:30 AM on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013

Jeepers that would totally be a one by one thing.

Some would call before you made it home. Others would do the play it *cool* thing and wait 2 -3 days.. Others have to make sure Mother's is chained and securely gagged back up in the attic before they call...

Honestly tiredofit - I have no clue, just couldn't resist the wide berth left wide open for a "psycho" reference...

"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 2:02 AM on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013

In my experience(s), if they asked for my number, they called within 48 hours.

[This message edited by Amazonia at 8:02 PM, July 16th (Tuesday)]

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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 tiredofit (original poster member #26423) posted at 4:05 AM on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013

Ok so he texted me tonight.

Not sure how I feel about that instead of calling.

Am I just being old or is that ok?

Me: BS45 him: stbxh 45
2 dd's 16 and 12
Multiple DDs 7/09 - 9/21/10 same mow co-worker
Last DD 9/21/10 found love notes on computer I'm done, I'm free!!

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MyVoice ( member #35695) posted at 11:07 AM on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013

Texting is normal.

Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 11:44 AM on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013

Oh yes, very normal. I think when I said "call" I really meant "contact", because only one called the old fashioned way, and I put him to voicemail.

If you're not a texter or not comfortable texting, send back a short and friendly response but also state that you don't text much and would love to chat on the phone.

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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